Beginning of this month this girl and I were going on date things were going great and about the 6th time seeing her I stayed over and we were intimate and she asked to hang out the next day too so we did what we had planned, 2 days later she sent the text of I don't see a future together you're so amazing but with me wanting to moving I just can't see it happening.. I said sounds good and wished her the best, generally confused the next day she texted me saying "I feel bad, I don't want to ghost you and I don't know what to do?" So I called her asking her if this is just a clean exit for you so you can look like the good guy? She was like no I just care so much about you... I said well I don't need anyone checking in on me not going to abandon myself over a girl... I said we can sit down and figure she out and that's where she said I'm not changing my stance.. I said okay think about the future and not live in the moment! She then turned around and said I have feelings still for you and I haven't closed the door... so now I'm like etf is going on in my head... I said okay let's go for a coffee and talk she agreed an hour later after work she said I'm still really sick and have so much to prepare for let's leave it for now and maybe hang out when I'm better and I said no worries hope you feel better text me when you want to talk... weekend passes by and Sunday night she texted me saying she can't watch our show by herself.. i said back you better not and she ms like I can be free this week,so after all of the shit that's fine down here what is happening and how do I go in without bringing up everything that happened and go in with the confidence that got me her in the first place and reunite that spark and attraction?