My and my gf are not having sex. I am not bad looking and I work out. Got that muscly dad bod. She was sodomized by her own father when she was a child and even though I try to be understanding, she is going through something. All I need to want to keep this relationship going is more sex. Is this wrong ? I mean I was getting laid more when I was single.

When we do have sex I can’t go balls deep and I have to be extra gentle and use lube on her as she doesn’t get wet anymore.

I just want to unleash and be me during sex. I don’t know what to do. I am considering we are not a good match anymore and thinking of breaking up with her.

Update 12/29/19:

Thank you everyone for all of your feedback. After much work and trying go on dates and trying to do everything I could, my and my now ex broke up.

Her issues and school schedule prevented her from being able to be I but intimate with me. When we did have sex, it was rushed and I could not go in her all the way as she would say it would hurt her. I am sad to announce that the relationship did not make it.

Once again thank you everyone for you advice.

Cheers people or Reddit