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[–]BegginerGamer 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Neediness goes both ways. Have you ever kinda thought about starting a relationship with a guy, then changed your mind after he 1) texted you too often, 2) texted you out of what seems like boredom, 3) put you on a pedestal?
If you have, see if that’s what you’re doing to this guy you’re interested in. If you’re doing that, hold yourself back- remember that there’s literally billions of men out there who’d fuck you, and probably hundreds of thousands if not millions within 50 miles from you.
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[–]BegginerGamer 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s not holding yourself back. It’s being aware that nowadays people have so many options and so many things going on, that the ‘fairytale’, ‘typical’ love doesn’t exist in that way anymore.
We’re connected with people all around the globe, there’s a lot happening. 100 years ago, you only knew the people you knew. Keep that in mind, seduction and love changed
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[–]BegginerGamer 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Of course always happy to help love seeing people genuinely trying to improve themselves in this sub. Nowadays there’s a bunch of sexism and very dumb points of views being ditched out by people who are lost but think they’re in the light
[–]quinnmcd[M] [score hidden] 6 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]KindWar -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Are you fat? Sounds like you are either fat or just plain ugly and he's ashamed to be seen in public with you. I'd put money on it.
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[–]KindWar 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Hight/weight? Plenty of people are fat and in denial can't rule it out. Not many people would have the balls to call someone ugly to their face either. If people are feeling the need to call you beautiful/average etc then it sounds like you might just be ugly tbh. Same as if an ugly person fishes for compliments they'll get them, people that are actually attractive don't get people playing into the fishing most of the time.
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[–]KindWar -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
so like 5'4 and nearly 9 stone. Not morbidly obese or anything but still on the higher side of normal weight range. People don't feel the need to generally tell you how beautiful you are at random unless they're trying to make you feel better about something. My money is on ugly at this point to be honest with you.
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[–]KindWar 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Lmao don't take it so badly. Your chubby enough that losing weight might help make you more attractive, if not there's a ton of stuff to try. Worse thing you could do is go into denial and wonder what's up for another 10 years.
[–]KindWar -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
55kg at 5'4 is overweight. I bet you are one of those HAES fat acceptance retards.
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