Seeking advice

CheValierXP · 2015-12-21T16:27:39+00:00

How do you know they are not attracted to you? Relax, be in control of your actions and reactions, have fun, try light touching, lots of eye contact and don't worry about the outcome, go in for a kiss and don't force it if you get rejected, sometimes first attempt will be rejected for reasons not related to you, so laugh it off and try later, at least you made your intentions known and she is still around you ( joke a bit, relax)

Also, go for girls you like, attracted to, doesn't have to be a 10 or 9 or whatever, some guys go after everything and get what they want for the short run, but end up hurting the girls and wasting both their and the girl's time ( so I don't get misunderstood, go for girls that you think are very good match, if you are going to spend time with someone better be with someone you are genuinely attracted to and interested in)

CrushHazard · 2015-12-21T17:57:53+00:00

First of all, I am betting that your perception is a bit off right now due to the backup of semen in your testicles. I also used to think that every guy could hook up with a girl except for me, but now I realize that probably wasn't the case. The difference between you and your friends is probably something really minor.

Since you haven't provided specific examples, I'm just gonna link to my seduction series posts. However, I think that if you post a detailed account of an interaction with a woman, that would be the most helpful. There is probably just some minor stuff that you need to fix, and then it will all just start to work out.

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3fuutr/crush_hazards_seduction_series_rule_1_be_bold/

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3hx3u4/crush_hazard_seduction_series_rule_2_build/

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3m5dsg/crush_hazards_seduction_series_rule_3_focus_on/

UnclassyGentleman · 2015-12-21T20:21:19+00:00

Here's the deal dude, generally being successful with women is a bit harder when you're quiet and low energy. I mean there are obviously girls who love "chill" guys but if you're not communicating with them in the process of being chill, you won't get anywhere, right? And to communicate you need to be not quiet and high energy.

However, does that mean you should change yourself for the sake of getting laid? Does it mean you have to give up your chill identity to get girls? Not really, because the world doesn't run on clean cut models of chill and loud.

Try to incorporate elements that you want in your life, learn how to talk to women, learn how to draw them in your reality WHILE being chill. You need to make an effort. Your dick isn't magically going to get inside a beautiful woman and there is no happily ever after. Stretch your comfort zones, expand and grow out of your chill personality while retaining its core.

That's my general advice from reading of this post but if you're looking for specific pointers on "game" or where you're going wrong with women, then you need to post how you're being unsuccessful.

Buckditch · 2015-12-21T16:27:18+00:00

As a woman, chill guys are great. But if they're too chill then they can come off as either uninterested or boring. Are you funny? Also if you're chill do you have this conversation a lot "where do you want to go for dinner?" "You pick." "No you pick" etc. ? That's fun sometimes but not all the time.

Title	Seeking advice
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Date	December 21, 2015 3:02 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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