I am practicing new mindsets. I am currently facing some sticking points that I hope you guy could help me. When I manage to talk to a girl for instance, and even though I expose myself and do all I could and the girl rejects me, I keep taking it abit personally. Like thinking to myself stuff like if I was better looking or if a better looking/cooler guy did the same thing as me, she wouldn't have rejected me. Maybe I'm not good enough, maybe I'm full of it and not all that like I want to tell myself.

For guys who went through such experiences, how you think about it and how you stopped taking it personally? How you see rejection? How stop comparing yourself to other guys?