Self Improvement Help

circlhat · 2017-12-29T03:35:25+00:00

be yourself, you improve naturally around people, we are all selfish and constantly looking to optimize are return of investment

I want to live my best life.

So does everyone else, just keep doing whatever your doing and you will naturally improve.

A lot of people consider me "weird" or"different"

Same for 99% of the population, as I said just keep doing what you're doing

ElDinerio · 2017-12-29T14:17:47+00:00

When you say "Improve how you act around people" it makes it sound like there is some over-arcing standard that you're molding yourself to that is dictated by someone or something other than you. That may not be the case but I feel like the language used can be just as detrimental to growth as the actual actions. For me I feel similar. Like I feel almost like if I speak to people I would become a huge burden just talking at all. I've been able to push past at times and just act. I'm still kind of stand offish sometimes so I haven't built any lasting/strong friendships from talking to random people but I've had some great experiences with people that I wouldn't have had if I didn't do something weird and random to gain their attention

I get called weird constantly too. In my experience so far, a lot of people who call me that often either stop at some point or call me "weird, but in a good way" after they get to know me better. So its like a perception vs reality situation. Once you start pushing to talk to people first, the quicker they can get a more true impression of who you are.

Title	Self Improvement Help
Author	MichelatteYT
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	December 28, 2017 11:17 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7mq9xz/self_improvement_help/
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