Let us make a test.

I want you sell you a lighter.

Do you want to buy this lighter.?

Maybe less than 10% says yes. Why.?

Because you sell... what you want to sell and not what the customer wants.

If I instead says "Do you like to have a backup in case the light goes out.?"

Then If you say yes, then I can sell you this lighter....

Are you selling want you need, or what the girl need.?

Let us rethink seducing, and think what does the girl need.

The Wannabe: Want to be popular. Help her with a make over, because you are honest about what makes her look sexy. When you get her alone, then ask if it is true that popular girls has lots of sex. (You plant the idea in her mind, that popular and sex goes together.)

The Nerd. Want to be normal. Ask her for help with study, and get her alone (for study). She want to be normal, and you link being normal with having a guy to sleep with.

The Adventurous: Want the dangerous experience. Tell her you want to try something wild, and you need a sidekick to help kick you into it. Then give her a easy sex dare.

The Ambitious: Want to be number 1. Help her study, maybe even try to beat her, and get her alone for reading. Then ask her if she ever thought about who many girls use sex to get a better job. If she want to be the best, then she need to train....

Think, want does the girl want, and how can you use that to get alone with her, and then to seduce her.