Guys, i am watching the videos of RSD Max from the Natural, and he discusses about an awesome concept: using physicality for testing/pinging her attraction.

Introduction

What is physicality pinging? As you know, different girls react in different ways and express their attraction using different means - or not at all. Sometimes a girl can ask a lot of questions, maintain strong eye contact, initiate kino or over-qualify herself but other times she can be unreactive, even though she is attracted. Moreover, attraction is not a binary value - the girl can be less or more attracted and thus less or more ready for a make out and pull and thus it is important to determine how attracted she is. One additional weapon in our attraction arsenal can be physicality pinging

Physicality pinging

Essentially, we don't kino the girls only because this is part of our nature as men, but also to determine where in the scale lies her attraction for us - is she super interested, indifferent or still hesitant and not ready to be pulled? So, we start the conversation and we physically ping: for example touch her elbow, hug her, spin her, turn to some other direction, lead holding her hand, close the proximity towards her, hold her hand, hold her hand and close your fingers around her, touch the small of her back, penguin kiss her, throw her in the air, drop her to the floor, touch her head etc. After every ping, we measure her response:

  • Negative: (i.e we hugged her but she tap-taped us in the back or she literally started screaming at us :D) We stop immediately, we physically step back if her reaction was too negative, and we verbalize a statement of empathy (oh i am really sorry) if necessary. It is important though that all of these steps must be done while maintaining our cool - if it was not a big deal to us it would probably not be a big deal to her either.

  • Neutral: (i.e. we hugged her but she didn't hug back, we led her by the hand and her fingers were barely touching ours etc). We stop the kino, we continue gaming her and we ping her a bit later with a kino of equal or slightly higher energy.

  • Positive (i.e. we hug her and she hugged as back, we touched her in the shoulder and she closed proximity to us, we closed proximity and she put her hand on our back/shoulder). She is high in the attraction scale for that kino energy level. We ping again with a higher energy kino and re-evaluate. For example if we touched her elbow and she reciprocated the touch we can hold her hand after a bit and re-test her reaction. If that was positive we can go for the hug, then make-out etc.

tl;dr: Don't use physicality and kino just to show your attraction, build comfort with the girl and increase her attraction, but also to determine how attracted she is to you and to time your escalation.