Motivation

As men, we don't just want to be good at picking up women, but also work hard for your career to be established future alpha males. As regular 40 hours/week blue-collar workers, most of us require to be super-disciplined, self-criticizing, and patient at work. All of these traits of the modern day working won't necessary help you get into the pick up mind set; in fact it's usually opposite: we need to be relaxed, loose, cocky, and even somewhat delusional about ourselves. As for me specifically, I have trouble picking up women after working 9-5, and also early in the weekend which is when I go pick up. Not only that, my work suffers early in the week from being the "lets have fun" state from going out three days on the weekend. These delusional state really doesn't help me motivate working as I feel like I don't even need to work anyway. For example, Brad from one of the owen's video here literally cannot focus on making a lesson video, because he is so full of himself:

http://youtu.be/Pe0TR9LPONY?t=6m11s

This attitude helps a lot for pick up, but it really suffers us when working. This trend has made me pretty unproductive on Monday. It usually takes me full Monday of hardcore discipline and beating myself to be able to get back to hard working mode by Tuesday.

Suggested Method to Quickly Shift your Mindset

Well, I had an opportunity to talk about this with one of the coaches, and he referred to a method called "anchoring" which is explained in the video below.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XXF5IwXQ5Dk

This techniques involves using "anchor." It's sort of like a conditioned reflex type thing you learned in the psychology. Here is how I utilize this:

On Friday night, I usually drive about 40 minutes to a bigger city to pick up women, while I drive, I have a same set of songs that I always listen to pump myself up. Also, when I dress up for pick up and put perfume, I go through a list of things I need to be for example: being in the present, relax, think of Brad's attitude from that video, be delusional, or whatever helps you. Eventually, I don't even have to try hard to become in the state when I get ready for pick up.

During the week, I use alarm as a sort of "work-time!" signal to me. If the alarm sounds in the morning, I mean business and get ready quickly and go to work, and work hard, without thinking about any pick ups I did a day before, or getting zoned out by those stuff.

For extra, say I'm going for a day game during the lunch break, I would listen to one of the pump song, and be quickly ready for short 1 hour pick up session.

Does it really help? yes. In fact, stronger you believe that this will work, the better this will work. (as this is how most of the psychology stuff works) I'm full on working mode from Monday straight, no more productivity suffering. Also, as soon as Friday night hits, I'm not only loose, but also already pretty high up at the state, so I don't need entire night to enter the state.

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Well, guys, this post doesn't really cover seduction per se, but it helped a regular folks like me who is not a full-time pick up artist that doesn't need mind-set change as much. Also, I dream big on my career, and these type of simple trick helps immensely. I hope this helps a lot of you out there as well!