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Short, 24 Ready to Quit

MrPxll · 2013-06-20T15:16:50+00:00

ok here's a question for you people. I'm 24 years old and have never had a relationship. The wonderful reason for this is because of my height of...

MrPxll

June 20, 2013

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Title	Short, 24 Ready to Quit
Author	MrPxll
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	June 20, 2013 3:16 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1gqbu5/short_24_ready_to_quit/
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Your height is only an issue because you let it be one. Women are turned off not by how tall you actually are but how tall you feel. That's what they mean when they say you're too short. It's because you act like you're too short.

I get that if you're depressed about this it must really suck to hear about people in similar situations who end up having better successes. When I turned 24 I had never had a girlfriend and only over had sex once a few years before. I was miserable and I hated hearing about people finding love because it felt like they were rubbing my face in it. I get that. Here's the thing though, the problem was me. I was the reason I had been single that long and it wasn't because of how I looked. It was how I acted. Once I acted like a better person people saw me as a better person.

It's very easy for this kind of thing to turn into a horrible cycle. You start loosing confidence because of bad luck with women but you can't get anywhere with women if you have low confidence. So it just keeps getting worse and worse until something breaks and unfortunately for a lot of people it breaks in the wrong way and they end up doing something stupid.

The only good way to break the cycle is to change from within. You have to be happy with yourself and your life. Stop focusing on things you can't change and focus on things you can. I know it sounds like generic motivational bullshit but if you work on being the best 'you' you can be and being as awesome as possible people will respond it. If your life is good enough people are going to want to be a part of it. If you are the kind of person that people just plain love to be around then I can guarantee you that your height will be the last thing they notice about you.

Besides if you honestly believe that being short puts you at a disadvantage then why reduce your chances even more by acting so miserable and bitter? You might not be able to change your height but you CAN change how you feel about it. So why not improve your chances as much as possible by making up for your height?

There's a saying that goes: "You can be fat. You can be an asshole. You can't be a fat asshole." There's a reason for the cliche about fat/ugly people being nicer than good looking people. It's because they can't coast by on their looks so the need to actually be good people. If you can't coast by on your looks you need to be a good person too. Right now you are not doing that. And it is something you can change.

If you're honestly thinking about killing yourself you should get help. /r/SuicideWatch/ might be of some help but you'll probably need professional help. A therapist could probably do you a lot of help.