Short responses when i text her

Snooc5 · 2018-01-10T09:29:27+00:00

Usually girls that are truly interested will respond well, and do their part to keep a conversation going. Sometimes girls are simply bad at texting, and rarely are they actually “too busy” to respond. I’d say you might wanna text her less often for a little, if she doesn’t reach out or improve, move on.

Conor_Niggregor · 2018-01-10T09:55:55+00:00

i keep asking questions

and that's one of your main problems

but i always feel like it turns out to be just an interrogatory session

yea, we call that "interview mode"

i've always heared that girls like to talk, all what u have to do is ask the questions, be a good listener and she will do all the talking

who the hell told you that bullshit? lmfao wow

i'm always struggling to make that connection to trigger that something that will make her comfortable with me

you can't convince a girl logically. you have to spike her emotions

i feel like i'm just bothering her.

she'd just not respond. you're boring her.

any advice in how to fix that guys.

http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-text-girl

recyclablebanthas · 2018-01-10T13:49:09+00:00

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hi guys, i'm struggling to keep a conversation with girls when texting

Let's stop right here. You're not talking about "conversations." You're talking about "texting." Big difference.

_a_

When you have the person right in front of you, think of ALL the information you have.

Their body language: posture, facial expression, eye contact, gestures, etc.
The tone of their voice.
The timing of things they say.
All sorts of other nuance, most of it non-verbal.

_b_

Now compare that with text.

Word choice.
That's really most of it, because all the non-verbal stuff is stripped out of text.

This is why so much of text communication is subjective and open to different interpretation. We're used to extra meaning being there and without all the non-verbal stuff there with the words, we're left to guess at the rest.

If the girl guesses wrong and chooses an interpretation that's unfavorable to you, you're done.

This is why things can go south QUICKLY over text. It could be that something was taken the wrong way and while you could have known immediately in person and been able to adjust, over text you'll just walk into it face first.

This is just one reason why the common wisdom is to keep texting to logistics; planning meets.

Leave the "conversations" for in person. You're not going to make up for lack of in-person time, over text.

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i've always ~~heared~~ heard that girls like to talk

Talk.

Not text.

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all what u have to do is ask the questions, be a good listener and she will do all the talking

Don't confuse the subject. You keep quoting wisdom that applies to IN PERSON conversation.

In person. Not text.

Title	Short responses when i text her
Author	walidxx
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	January 10, 2018 8:58 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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