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[–]shane-heaps 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be straight up with and say you don’t text me anymore. See her response
[–]theroachman42 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
invite her. she messaged you first on this. you do not sound desperate. i know desperate and you don't sound like it.
[–]dondraper36 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Invite her to the next game? You know, it seems to me that she just likes going out and spending time there, but she doesn't even care about me in the friendship sense. Of course, I had better not care, and yet this feeling of being manipulated is irritating. And her message sounds like she just wants to attend the games, no matter with who.
[–]tryingtugetbooty 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She might be playing hard to get or looking for attention. Reply aloofly telling her she is free to come whenever, if the games are on the same day and also tell her happy birthday.
[–]dondraper36 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Honestly, I never managed to understand her motives. I guess she lost interest and now just behaves in quite a manipulative way. I told her almost exactly what you advised. Her answer was, "I didn't know what day the game was on. If you write me, I will definitely come."
[–]tryingtugetbooty 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, she might be into you if she wants to go just because of you. Definitely still put her on the back burner, dont initiate as much and pursue other interests.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I would say forget her. You already forgave her enough and she didn’t respect you even as a friend. Why forgive her again? Give your time to girls worthy of your time.
You are undoubtedly right. I just can't get rid of this "gestalt" and for some reason want to understand her behavior which doesn't make much sense to me. It seems logical to me when a girl tries to avoid the guy showing romantic interest that she can't reciprocate. In her case, however, she enjoys spending time together, but only on her terms.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok.
[–][deleted] 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
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Now I think I should have answered that, but it's too late. Anyway, no matter what I write the best option is just to completely move on and exclude her from my life.
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