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So I have a podcast about dating, sexuality & relationships which I host with an awesome girl called Lidiaana, & today’s episode covers two questions.

Firstly we answer the question of whether or not it ever makes sense to get back with an ex. Let’s say you and somebody were together a couple years ago but split up because you decided they weren’t right for you, and now they’ve come back on the scene. Would it ever make sense for you to revisit that situation? We explore that topic in real depth.

Secondly I give a mindset that men can adopt to find the confidence to boldly approach that hot woman at the bar, subway platform, bus stop, or anywhere else for that matter. As for what that is then basically it goes like this; essentially, when you approach someone you need to be aware of the value you’re bringing to the table. If you approach them timidly and in a way that’s apologising for yourself (like a homeless person asking for money) then your chances of having them give you the time of day are pretty slim. But; if you’re aware of how awesome you are and what you bring to the table as a person then they’ll see you differently.

The way I like to look at it is to imagine that someone gave you 10 million dollars to go and give to some random beautiful woman. However; they also say that you have to talk to that woman for half an hour before you can give her anything and you also can’t tell her why you’re there either until the time is up.

In that scenario you’d have no fear about approaching her whatsoever. In fact you’d have a massive smirk on your face which she’d probably find really compelling, and if she told you to fuck off, you’d giggle thinking ‘Bitch! You just lost out on 10 million dollars!’

That’s the mindset you need to have when you approach people you’re attracted to!

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