Too many guys screw themselves because they miss the signs, signals and hints. This is what I personally experienced &. I’m sure a lot of you experienced guys went through the same thing!

  1. She creates excuses to be close

- Sitting next to you when other seats are open

- Touching your arm, shoulder, knee “by accident” (and not pulling away) or when walking she wraps her arm around yours.

- Leaning in when you talk, staying in your personal space. A simple hug turns into a nose to nose conversation!

  1. Eye contact + body language

- Long deep eye contact, slow smiles

- Looking at your lips or your crotch while you talk

- Open body posture (facing you, legs uncrossed toward you)

- Playing with hair, clothes, necklace while looking at you

  1. Flirty escalation

- Teasing you .. she’ll ask you to her room to “help” her unhook & peel off her bra as she preps for a shower. Has no problem walking past you naked.

- Compliments that are physical or suggestive (“you smell good,” “you’re so bad”)

- Laughing a little too hard at your jokes that you know aren’t funny.

- Asks what your favorite color is? Then chooses that color for her nails & toes.

  1. She keeps the interaction going

-Texts late at night which turns into SEXTING! She’ll request dic pics or send you a nude.

- Responds fast and keeps the convo alive

- Asks personal questions (dating status, what you’re into? what kind of condoms do you like? when was your last relationship? who was the last girl you slept with?)

  1. Logistics statements/hints

These are REAL GREEN FLAGS:

- “So what are you doing later?”

- “Are you going straight home?”

- “Do you wanna come over? / see my place?

- Complains about gaining weight in the right places. Says things like “i’n fat, does my butt look too big in these jeans? “wow my boobs are a little too big for this top i must be gaining weight”

  1. She green-lights escalation

- Doesn’t pull away when you touch her lightly. She’ll let you smack her ass while she walks in front of you or lets you lay your head on her boobs like a pillow.

- Mirrors your energy when you flirt. For example, If you say “you look hot in that skirt” then she’ll say “and it’s quite comfortable especially without panties underneath”

- If you slow things down, she nudges it forward again.

•Strong signals (almost never accidental)

- Invites you over to her place & answers the door in lingerie, a see through, a tank top & thong set or something even sexxier.

- Talks about sex casually with you and tells you her favorite positions

- Makes sexual innuendos specifically involving you. For example, “It would be nice if we can get a hotel overlooking the city with you chasing me around the room naked”

Says things like:

“I feel really comfortable with you” *takes off her top then her bra and lets you play with her boobs.

“ I don’t usually do this, but…” *strips and gets in your bed

“You’re so sexy to me” *unzips your pants & pulls them down along with ur boxers!

Even though a woman may do all these signs, signals and hints with you, I have a million dollar bet some of you guys will still get on this sub and still post saying “She took off her bra & panties then spread her legs open, HOW DO YOU ESCALATE???”