I'm an attractive 22 year old woman. I've always jumped from relationship to relationship from the age of 16, but recently I made the decision to get out there and do my own thing.

I've gone out to a few bars, clubs and pubs recently. While I receive crude attention from guys I want nothing to do with, the guys I am interested in seem a little ... timid? I go for guys who look around the same age as me, early 20s.

I'm very self confident, I'm not afraid to strike up conversation with strangers but I'm not a loud person. I'm not 'in your face' in any way, so why do guys seem to back off when I approach them?

What I wear isn't incredibly intimidating, it shows off my figure but it still leaves something to the imagination. No short skirts or plunging neck-lines, just something I think looks classy and is relatively comfortable.

Help me out guys, what am I doing wrong?