Made quite a few posts on this sub about my situation and got some good advice so i'm here again. Brief summary of the whole thing is i'm at uni and a little bit older than most of my flatmates and live with a girl that had her bestfriends come far away to see her and we all went on a nightout etc and it turned out we didn't even get let in the club so came back and everyone but me and her bestfriend went back out and literally just walked around the city at 2am talking about random shit then we got back to the flat and things happened etc and I guess I caught feelings which sucked.

But the weird thing that happened during it all she mentioned something like 'I shouldn't be doing this' then I asked what she meant and she said 'it's nothing to do with her but to do with me' then she said 'it's not my place to say' but we carried on anyway but it made me wonder wtf she meant, anyway she lives quite far away and has gone home and we haven't been in contact since.

We then went out last night clubbing and the flatmate told me she has liked me for a long time and she knew what happened between me and her bestfriend and it made her upset etc so what the girl was saying now made sense but the problem is although she is crazy beautiful and we're very similar personality wise I just feel like i'd get intimidated with the amount of attention she would get when we're together and it problem wouldn't work out so I just don't know what to do as I really wanna get in contact with the other girl but feel like i'm in a bit of a bad situation and not sure what to do, any advice would be appreciated.

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