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[–]sleeps_with_crazy1 points 11 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
Don't initiate contact until day of the date. Then just say "so, when should I pick you up?". Do not say anything like, "hey, are we still on for tonight?".
[–]Bluewind55 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So just say nothing all week?
[–]CaliBboy 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"so, when should I pick you up?
No,no, no. This is letting her decide. You're the man you are supposed to take the lead. When making the date you should have stated the time and had no contact with her until the date. There's no need to verify the date with a call or text.
This how Corey Wayne handles dates and I agree with him on this strategy because it works.
My response in this situation is something along the lines of:
"Jessica, I have a really busy schedule, and I would definitely like to take you out, but if you can’t make definite plans with me, then how about we just do it some other time?"
Then you are going to wait for her response. It is what we call in sales, the Take Away. If she says: "Yes. Give me a call and we’ll make it for some other time..." her interest is low. If her interest is high, she will be more likely to say something along the lines of: *"No, I just wanted your number. I definitely want to see you."
I will have women ask: "You’re not going to call me before you come?" I usually answer in a light-hearted manner: "I am the kind of guy who keeps my word. I am making plans to see you next Tuesday, and I’m definitely going to be there."
The best thing about this is you don’t have to call back to verify, so you don’t have to worry over the next several days whether or not you are actually going to be able to get a hold of her or not when you call back to verify. Nine times out of ten, if a woman gives you a call back to verify, you are never going to get her on the phone again.
i'm worried Iv come off as clingy and she is going to lose interest
too late she already has.
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