Ok, long story short, I met a girl at a party, we hit it off, and a couple days later I asked her out via FB. I had passed her on the street earlier and we didn't recognize each other so I was like "Hey I saw you earlier.Realized the hot girl I was checking out was you. Want to grab a coffee?" We ended up a bar instead, had some drinks, danced. I mostly just wanted to go have fun and wasn't even thinking about getting laid that night. It was cool, instead of being a dork I just joked with her, did kino, and ended up making out in an alley before going home to shag. I wasn't really thinking of things like kino, it just happened but the parallels to Seddit stuff was obvious thinking back on it. Normally if I go out with a girl I try to hard to get laid, which only works about half the time or less, so this was an interesting experience.

Anyways, we went out again once since then, no sex but a kiss close. We chat every day or two, with her initiating just as much as I do. We flirt occasionally but I try not to be hitting on her constantly. Its been two weeks of this game. She seems to be into me, flirts back, but is playing hard to get and I am at a loss as to what to do.

So, instead of skimming seddit occasionally I decided to ask the Hivemind. How should I handle this?