I went to Berlin two days ago. It was freezing cold. After a while walking around in the cold I found the "Mall of Berlin" and did some daygame challenges. Asking a girl stupid questions like "What do you want for birthday?" Two hours later I got bored by it and jumped into a conversation with a girl from Istanbul. She looked pretty young I had guessed 16 but said she is 20. So I decided to take her on an instant date. First a cafe in the mall, then a beer in a pub in Friedrichshain. We went there in the subway. Sadly the set fizzled out after a while and she wanted to go home. It was 10 in the evening. I had no room to sleep (bad panning from my part) so I went alone for a pizza was sitting around and listening to my audio records of the day. Shortly before my phone died I found a party in the Suicide Circus a Berlin Techno Club next to the place where I got this pizza. Only problem the club life in Berlin starts at 2am. It was too early. Some Irish guys crossed my way. I asked them for the direction to the mysterious Suicid Circus. But they invited me too I come with them. They were heading to Wilde Renate a different club who starts its parties earlier. That was a really good decision. The club is amazing. Make sure you fit in and you actually like underground Techno. But be aware that people there are mostly on MDMA or other drugs. Chick quality is really good compared to the sad reality I have to work in Leipzig.
I talked to a lot of people. A girl from Spain - Bilbao, a guy from the Netherlands, a group of guys from Switzerland - Bern, two French girls, two Dutch girls one of them an actress for some Dutch series they showed me. The Spanish girl told me her current hook up is getting jealous about me, but we can find us later. The Dutch girls where just lame. The French ones not really good looking.
In the end I found a German and an English girl both living in London on a 3 days trip in Berlin. The German girl was tall 6'0 and blond pretty and had an amazing ass. A girl I would like to have as a girlfriend. The English one was not 100% my cup of tea. But still good looking. Dark hair, nose ring, maybe 5'8' in height.
The set was going well. I didn't creep them out. We had a normal conversation. They liked me and wanted me to stay with them. I didn't use any routines or shit I know from pick up videos. I guess I had a really social vibe this day. I befriended everyone who crossed my way. This was handy when they asked me where they would get drugs. I already know three different guys who wanted to sell something to me when I talked with them. And not only that I knew there names. So I could say "Okay I am here with Ron a friend from Irland, but upstairs is also a Dutch guy his name is Tom. Just follow me. I will find one of them." They were like little happy girls after that and made sure I would always stay with them. That was really an amazing experience. They told me they work for a marketing company in London so hopefully they had normal lifes and it wasn't just the drugs.
We went on the dance floor. Which was stupid because now I couldn't escalate. But my not really thought through game plan was "The last man standing: Just build enough trust and fun so that you can go back with them to their hotel."
In the next moment a guy came in the set. At first I thought yeah let him do, he will blow himself out. Just watch and enjoy. A few seconds later I was a bit shocked. It looked like an RSD video. His scheme was "Open - Spark Emotions - Escalate". I could just watch and pray. Thankfully it didn't work and the German girl wanted to get away from him. Now I paid back. I turned my back on him and blocked him out of the round. He gave up and went to the next girl.
When the situation was clear again I just decided to talk to him. When I asked him if he knows Real Social Dynamics he finally gave in. And he offered me to do some sets together. Befriend your enemy. The girls where now dancing among these Irish guys I arrived with. They looked pretty happy about this fact and I know that they wouldn't try to steal them. Worst what could happen is that they buy them a drink.
But when I came back the German girl said she lost her English friend. She was gone. We looked in every corner. No one. I saw this PUA guy taking to other guys who didn't fit 100% in in this club. I thought it was an error to leave both of them alone. She was on drugs and panicked about this fact. I just couldn't control her. I tried to bring her out on the fresh air. Thought well if she is so out of her mind, maybe just try to kiss her. But she rejected without even noticing it. No hope to find the girl again, I left her because it wasn't fun to run behind her all the time. Half an hour later I saw her sitting down while another guy was talking to her. She saw me but I ignored them.
I was trying a few other approaches, but now I was in PUA mode and I would get blown out of every set. I don't know. I wanted to game girls and nothing worked. It was strange.
I gave up got myself a beer was leaning against the wall watching people. I just lost everything. Fuck!
Out of nothing the English girl was standing in front of me. "Oh hey, we missed you. Where have you been?" She was happy to see me and said that she was also looking for us but couldn't find us. I gave her a hug, she pressed her body close to mine. I pulled her hips against me so that she can feel my dick. I wanted to kiss her but she said "Sorry, I have a boyfriend. We can't kiss." I said okay lets find German girl again. She followed me. On our way I discovered a kind of sex room with small cabins where you could have some privacy. I went inside with her we closed it and started to make out again. But it wasn't more than kissing her tits and pressing our bodies against each other.
We left this box and found the German girl. They were happy to be united again. But I was feed up with the German girl and I just had a make out with her friend. Damn nothing could stop me. Well except my ego and pick up personality. I joined this PUA guy we both got blown out. Now I was running around like him feeling totally off.
When saw the German girl again she saw me and made eye contact, she wanted me to join them again but my ego said no. "What the fuck! I am wasting time with her. I want to fuck her! I don't want to be her stupid friend of the evening." I guess it was also an error to take a few drags from the joints that where going around there.
A bit later I ask someone for the time. It was 8 in the morning. The two girls were gone. The club was still crowded but the girls become less and less and the one who where there where not available. I left and took the first train home.
This whole evening caused two questions:
How to game in a club? It is my social approach against his shotgun method. How to deal with a different PUA, who seems to have good skills?
What are yours solutions to this?
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