This is something I observed from a gorgeous girl I met, and started falling out of abundance with. The three interactions all went well, but I didn't move fast enough and am getting slotted into boyfriend territory (e.g. hugging in front of friends, telling friends about me, saying "no rush" when I'm throwing dates out, etc.)

  • I started to compare other girls I approached and was attracted to to her
  • I started to shy away from approaching girls about two dates in with this girl
  • My wing said I lost my touch yesterday, big big sign
  • I started to mentally masturbate with our interactions, because they went so well

I don't think it's over, but she is a little more cool, I'm telling you guys now I'm going to start approaching again, and get some more numbers. There's possibility of dating, but sex will be harder to get with her as now she put on the breaks with me.

In summary:

  • Don't project any shit onto a girl, differentiate what is real and projected as you notice yourself doing this
  • Don't comb over your interactions with her in your mind
  • Keep studying game and practicing it with other girls, other than the great girl you met, and got a mini crush on

Identify oneitis as soon as you can if you're already in it, or completely avoid it using these pointers! It will make you feel much better in the long run.