Starting college in a week. Tips?

jaq_the_ripper · 2014-01-03T09:21:06+00:00

Definitely make sure to: Sit next to a girl if at all possible. Definitely introduce yourself immediately and start some small talk... number close if it feels right, every situation is different every girl is unique, go with your gut. Definitely tell her she should study with you a week or so before the 1st exam and use that as a time to # close at the very latest. I used to use class room game a lot before I was too nervous for cold approaches and had pretty good success.

Definitely join a club on campus. In fact, try to join multiple clubs if you have the time, giving yourself more opportunities. What is also important is that you try to find your niche club. I enjoy free spirited hippie-type girls, they're fun, positive, and tend to have raging libidos. Thus, I went to the group meditation class on campus. It's not that I'm avoiding challenging myself. However, when I go to my niche club with girls who share my interests I can game in a more natural and relaxed state and thus come off smoother.

I also joined a club for business majors and got multiple bangs within the group. Also, I made friends with all the girls, even those I didn't want to bang and wound up getting numbers from some of there cute friends. It all boils down to networking essentially. Making friends with a wide circle of both girls and guys has fantastic benefits. Lately, I actually find myself hanging out with mostly girls, even if I'm not actively trying to hook up with them. I've learned A LOT about how they think/feel/see the world that way. It pays dividends later when you are actually trying to hook up with someone.

The classroom and student group/club game are both pretty good hustles in their own right. Now for those cold approaches outside of the classroom/club. I like to use the "Elderly Opener" by Roosh. Generally he suggests in his book "Day Bang" that if you see a girl using a certain type of laptop or reading a book, simply ask them "Excuse me, is that a good book/laptop?". It's dubbed the "Elderly Opener" because it's a very innocent opener an older person might use to start a conversation in a coffee shop/post office/etc.

I'm mostly a day gamer who really doesn't do clubs that often and this is one of my favorites. Almost every girl I've tried it on answers with enthusiasm and a big grin. Women love talking about themselves and their interests.

I've personally had success with all three of those methods on campus. However, I'm only suggesting them as basic templates you try out and see if they work. In the end, you shouldn't take what I or anybody else in the pick up community says as gospel until you try it out in the field and tweak it to your personal style. Happy hunting my friend.

2014-01-03T12:12:06+00:00

less receptive and harder than american girls I think

Don't start making excuses already! The only thing that will determine how receptive they are is you. Remember that.

Don't be shy. Meet a lot of people, remember names. You don't have to be overenthusiastic about typical first day interactions "omg no way you're from vancouver too high five!!!" but don't shy away from physical interactions, avoid the shy "waving hello" when you step into a group. Shake hands, keep eye contact, etc.

HappyJerk · 2014-01-03T16:43:36+00:00

Keep in mind this is college in canada so the girls are less receptive and harder than american girls I think

Where the fuck do people get these stupid generalizations from? I'm assuming you're like 18 if you're starting college, so how the hell would you have enough experience to know the difference between American and Canadian girls? Dudes rely on these false generalizations to excuse their lack of confidence/game. Fact is, girls everywhere are pretty similar and I would say if anything Canadian girls are more open and down to get crazy.

All that said, beginning college is a golden opportunity. For one, it is one of the few times in your life where it is completely not weird to approach random people and introduce yourself. Nobody knows each other so people are constantly introducing themselves to everybody. If I were you, I would introduce myself to EVERYBODY. Dudes, girls, everybody. Say "I live in X dorm, I'm from X." Also, you guys are all going through a shared experience that is pretty scary, so you have a lot of stuff to emotionally connect about.

Also, try to make some older friends at school (bonus points if you already have them). Shit, I would even pretend to have older friends. At my school there was this weird dynamic where freshman girls were attracted to older guys because they weren't living on campus like the dorky freshman guys and they had their own houses and go to the bars. If you could be a girl's link to that world she will like you.

But of all things, make sure you strike while the iron is hot. Those first few weeks people will be getting drunk, partying and hooking up a lot. For a lot of girls its the first time they are free from their parents and the first time they are partying. Take advantage.

Title	Starting college in a week. Tips?
Author	throaway2510
Upvotes	4
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Date	January 3, 2014 8:03 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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