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| 490 | To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid. | jaq_the_ripper | /r/seduction | 06/03/15 03:52 PM | |
| 146 | Seduction at Summer Music Festivals? | jaq_the_ripper | /r/seduction | 21/04/13 08:11 PM | |
| 93 | Has Anyone Else Switched From the "1-10" Scale to the "0 or 1" Scale? | jaq_the_ripper | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 07:33 PM | |
| 43 | Important Epiphany I Had Two Months Ago | jaq_the_ripper | /r/seduction | 18/01/14 07:09 PM | |
| 27 | Deciding to Move Out of My Small College Town to a Bigger City Was the Best Decision Ever | jaq_the_ripper | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 08:59 PM | |
| 3 | Experienced Sedditors: My Harem is Unraveling and It's Time to Rebuild, Need Advice. | jaq_the_ripper | /r/seduction | 07/01/14 12:02 AM | |
| 1 | A practical tip for taking her off the pedestal. | jaq_the_ripper | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 06:29 PM | |
| 1 | Stuck in the "mid-level" of game. Need some advice from those gaming for a relationship. | jaq_the_ripper | /r/seduction | 03/11/12 05:17 PM |
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| 2 | Holy shit. If you don’t get matches, visit NYC.Yeah, but you can't discount the fact that he is in New York Fucking City, the largest city in the U.S. and one of the largest on the planet. OP has a very valid point. You're GONNA be blowing up there vs. some rural town in S. Dakota, hands down, no matter what the set of variables. It's just sheer numbers. I've experienced this same phenomenon moving to a city with 10x the population of the old small college town I was in. It's great and I'd recommend anybody do it. | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Deciding to Move Out of My Small College Town to a Bigger City Was the Best Decision EverWow, just described my old FL town to a T... a big multitude of dumb shits who are not only dumb but take pride in their anti-intellectualism. Good for you for breaking away! Enjoy your time in ATL, its an awesome city. | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Sarging in CharlotteGood luck! I used to come up and visit a friend in Charlotte. Uptown is a fun area. | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 05:48 PM |
| 1 | What places in the USA would you say are "hidden gems" when it comes to having a high number of attractive women?New Orleans on Bourbon Street. Most girls who go there are already looking for a good time. It has treated me very well. Source: I've lived close by for 7 years. | /r/seduction | 07/09/15 03:03 AM |
| 13 | My new ex best friend - makes me look bad with women so he can look better.Congratulations, man. You just identified who to cut out of your life. Enjoy the new freedom! | /r/seduction | 02/07/15 02:19 PM |
| 6 | Shy Girls: How do you escalate them?I'm so glad you brought this up. I posted a while back on the importance of knowing your niche with types of girls. It's simplified the game for me exponentially. I've realized after years in the game, that's there just a certain type that responds well to me. I certainly don't rule out other types, but won't actively pursue them nearly as much. Work smarter, not harder. | /r/seduction | 29/03/15 05:29 AM |
| 1 | To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid.I like you. High five | /r/seduction | 09/03/15 12:30 AM |
| 2 | To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid.Currently contemplating this. My two favorite business professors and life mentors are older guys with no wife or kids. Both happy as clams and love what they do, not to mention independently wealthy making six figures. | /r/seduction | 08/03/15 06:27 PM |
| 1 | To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid.One of my Marketing professors basically echoed your statement in class the other day. | /r/seduction | 08/03/15 06:24 PM |
| 1 | To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid.Very good perspective, I never even thought of it in that light. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/03/15 06:23 PM |
| 5 | To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid.I like that.... have an emotional exit. Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 07/03/15 12:18 AM |
| 11 | To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid.Thanks for the insight, that was a great read. I have found that having mostly girls for friends has helped out a lot. My closest friend in my city right now is a girl. They are very valuable resources for learning game. | /r/seduction | 06/03/15 09:47 PM |
| 13 | To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid.Wow. I was in a similar situation except far more abbreviated. I was in a LTR (and long-distance) from 18-20. It got way too serious way too rapidly, we were talking about marriage plans, etc. I definitely dodged a bullet. She wound up marrying some other guy soon after we broke it off and they got divorced very quickly. | /r/seduction | 06/03/15 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Welp, I'm finally leaving guys. It's been fun. Here's what I learned.Absolutely, I've even contributed some posts to this sub myself and its done wonders to get my head in the right place... back when I was about 20. Now I'm about to be 26 and I'll catch myself reading this sub on a weekend nite and realize I could actually be out grinding on strange women in a loud dark room, having outcome independent fun with people I genuinely care about, setting up Tinder dates, etc. This post actually motivated me to unsub, even if temporary, to dedicate myself more to prac… | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Men: what is something about a girl's appearence that would instantly put you off?Yeah I love certain tats on girls. Ones on the face though..... | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Important Epiphany I Had Two Months AgoThanks! | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Important Epiphany I Had Two Months AgoYou are spot on. Haha it's funny, I actually cooked for the girl I mentioned in my OP as our first date. First time I ever cooked for a girl ever. I came over to her place, brought a bottle of Cabernet and cooked lasagna from scratch (a surprisingly easy dish, but very tasty and will blow a girl's socks off). Didn't get laid that night but got in some good ol' spooning and Netflixing with some back rubs thrown in... Because why not? As a guy in my mid-20's who is gaming for a relationship, there… | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Important Epiphany I Had Two Months AgoThat's a great example. Thank God for visual metaphors....they're pretty much the only way I can conceptualize. | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Important Epiphany I Had Two Months AgoThanks I appreciate that! Another one of my goals has been to write more. It helps me organize my thoughts. | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Has Anyone Else Switched From the "1-10" Scale to the "0 or 1" Scale?Yup, going binary opened up a whole new world for me. If you take a look around, regardless of whether you are in class, a club, or coffee shop, you'll notice that there are A LOT of 1's walking around. That groups them all together. The 6's are given a "bell curve" up with the "7 through 10's". No more pedestals for any of them. Only one platform flat on the ground, eye level with you. | /r/seduction | 17/01/14 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Has Anyone Else Switched From the "1-10" Scale to the "0 or 1" Scale?I love Patrice, he was great on all his Opie and Anthony appearances. So sad that he's gone now. I never heard him describe the "1-100" though... what's it like? | /r/seduction | 17/01/14 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Is online dating worth it?Yeah that's my exact strategy. To use it strictly as a supplement to real life game... Not a replacement. Just another stock/bond in the game portfolio. | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 06:45 PM |
| 3 | How to pick up cute cashier girls?I worked as a male cashier in multiple establishments. Some of the girl cashiers were unfriendly twats to customers and still kept their job/got paid just the same as the friendly ones. If the cashier is being nice and flirting.....chances are she's nice. Too many people on this sub automatically shoot down going after the "hired guns" in retail environments. Bad mindset, goes against abundance mentality. I've gotten plenty of numbers that way. | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 02:33 AM |
| 1 | My age is becoming a problemYeah, I look about 20-21 when I'm clean shaven....It's awesome. | /r/seduction | 10/01/14 11:43 PM |
| 1 | My age is becoming a problemIf anything it's helped me more than hindered. I was shocked how many girls like an older guy. | /r/seduction | 09/01/14 11:27 AM |
| 3 | My age is becoming a problem25 here currently seeing a 19 year old. | /r/seduction | 09/01/14 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Experienced Sedditors: My Harem is Unraveling and It's Time to Rebuild, Need Advice.Yeah a lot of people are advising to keep it to 2. It makes sense for someone with my busy schedule. I got stretched way too thin and it was becoming like a 2nd job. I'd much rather just bang 1-2 regularly instead of having to "tend" to 4. I have a date Thursday, so the rebuilding is in the works. Luckily, I've never felt more comfortable around women. It's nice seeing all the hard work I've put in over the years start to pay off. | /r/seduction | 07/01/14 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Experienced Sedditors: My Harem is Unraveling and It's Time to Rebuild, Need Advice.Yeah, I definitely plan on staying on good terms with all of them. It pays dividends 6 months down the road when they're feeling lonely and craving male attention as per usual with flakey types. Again, great comment, thanks. | /r/seduction | 07/01/14 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Experienced Sedditors: My Harem is Unraveling and It's Time to Rebuild, Need Advice.Yeah I actually began with just the two. It becomes pretty draining trying to find the extra time for more than 2 girls. And yes, you can allow yourself some disappointment when it falls apart, but show an emotional even flow. For me it all happened around Christmas so I it did suck. However, I bought myself a nice steak, a 6 pack of import beer, and told myself to move on. I was proud of myself for showing emotional control for once. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 07/01/14 05:39 AM |
| 1 | What is your game plan once you're back at her/his place?Yes! This has served me well. If you you're too nervous to immediately having limbs touching, at least sit close enough to where the closing distance will be minimal. | /r/seduction | 06/01/14 11:36 PM |
| 5 | Seddit Literature recommendations on PU/Attraction?I would say "Bang" and/or "Day Bang" by Roosh V. Very non-gimmicky and super practical. "Bang" is kind of an overall guide but mostly focuses on night/club game. I'm somewhat biased because this was the first book that opened my eyes to the world of pickup. It had a memorable section that explained every single move from getting a girl from your couch to in your bed to actual sex. Fantastic for that weird stage for beginners who can get a girl in their apartment and making out... but are kind of… | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 10:20 AM |
| 1 | A few words from Siddhartha on the topic of seeking and findingYup, switching to the "Would or wouldn't I" binary scale has changed my life. The 1-10 scale is flawed in SO many ways. | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 09:55 AM |
| 3 | When you were first starting out, what was your plan for self improvement?"Game" everyone all the time. Strike up conversations in a laid-back non-intrusive manner. Male cashiers, grandma's waiting in line front of you at the post office, the FedEx delivery guy, EVERYONE. Master the art of small talk so you can have an easy-going "common touch" with people. It built up my overall social confidence through the roof. The best self improvements bleed into EVERY aspect of your life, not just meeting women. | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 11:33 PM |
| 4 | Starting college in a week. Tips?Definitely make sure to: Sit next to a girl if at all possible. Definitely introduce yourself immediately and start some small talk... number close if it feels right, every situation is different every girl is unique, go with your gut. Definitely tell her she should study with you a week or so before the 1st exam and use that as a time to # close at the very latest. I used to use class room game a lot before I was too nervous for cold approaches and had pretty good success. Definitely join a clu… | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 09:21 AM |
| 8 | Where do my hands go?Damn, pulling on her belt loops. I never even thought of that one. You're an assassin, my friend. | /r/seduction | 09/12/13 06:56 PM |
| 1 | I just don't really care about girls anymore...?I'm kind of introverted myself. But I also do love my close circle of friends and consider myself a "social" person. It seems like people in college don't understand if you don't want to surround yourself with 70,000 people around you at all times. Eh, I don't get it. Just do you, man, and have fun! | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 03:04 PM |
| 2 | First time going above 1st base because of the help I got in /r/seductionCongrats stud! It's such a great feeling getting that first make out. I would suggest lightly kissing and sucking on her neck while holding the back of her head and explore her waist some, before going into the pants. | /r/seduction | 25/07/13 11:55 PM |
| 2 | How to alter your handshake to achieve more confidence from the bat.I could see how Obama putting his hand on Romney's arm could show some kind of physical dominance as though he was holding him in his place and constraining his movement. The whole standing to the left side of someone is pretty fascinating. I've never heard that before, did the book delve deeper into that? | /r/seduction | 06/06/13 05:06 PM |
| 11 | Billy's Guide to KinoAnd what do we say to timidness and approach anxiety?? NOT TODAY. | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Can't get out of my head without drinking or smoking weedSame here, smoking herb completely kills my game unless I've already had 3-4 beers or the girl I'm talking to is really laid back. | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Seduction at Summer Music Festivals?Agreed. Pearl Jam was great. | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Seduction at Summer Music Festivals?Awesome! Can't beat the $75 ticket. | /r/seduction | 21/04/13 11:55 PM |
| 4 | Seduction at Summer Music Festivals?Yes! | /r/seduction | 21/04/13 11:26 PM |
| 8 | Seduction at Summer Music Festivals?Yes! That's a great point you brought up that I forgot to. Most likely they will be from out of town and this really adds to the novelty and fun of meeting new people. | /r/seduction | 21/04/13 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Seduction at Summer Music Festivals?That's awesome! Glad to hear you had such a great experience. I can't wait for this Summer. | /r/seduction | 21/04/13 10:50 PM |
| 7 | Seduction at Summer Music Festivals?You're so right. Getting opened by girls was kind of a mindfuck for me when I went the first time. It's like an alternate universe. It's an embarrassment of riches when you think about it. Ridiculously easy opens, tons of different things going on, an overall fun and laid back environment. Sometimes you just don't know where to start because of the sensory overload. How was Coachella by the way? I've always wanted to go but I live in Florida so it's tough. West Coast chicks always make me melt. | /r/seduction | 21/04/13 10:22 PM |
| 4 | Seduction at Summer Music Festivals?Asking them which band they are there to see/where they are from usually works well as an easy opener. But yeah, apparently talking to girls and having fun isn't allowed at festivals according to some of the comments down below. Interesting. | /r/seduction | 21/04/13 10:17 PM |
| 3 | I just returned to New York after a vacation in the Deep South, and I'm convinced that southerners are naturally better at the game we've been preaching.I'm glad you guys enjoyed your visits, but take it as a guy who have lived here for more than a decade there are PLENTY of uppity broads as well. Maybe not so much in Dallas, Atlanta, New Orleans etc. (I love those places) But really it's in the small dumpy towns with a population of ~50,000. I live in Pensacola, FL and the scene here is pretty bleak. This place is the Jersey Shore of the Southeast. Plenty of fake tans, horrendous fashion that people think is so cool (camo crocs... yeah I'm not … | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 12:23 AM |
| 14 | I'm a shy, awkward, average looking guy who has slept with over 50 women. I'm 27 and lost my virginity when I was 20. Here is my storyNot always. I agree with the OP that making yourself a regular at a decent bar with friendly staff is a huge win. I go to one where a lot of the regulars come in by themselves. The $2 Yuengling pints sweeten the deal even more. | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Reminder to Approach (x-post from /r/Motivation)Getting my ego stabbed has never not helped me, long term. | /r/seduction | 30/10/12 09:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to try and break every limiting belief about your looks there is. Let's do this.You CAN fix height. Wear lifts inside a pair of dress shoes. Its that simple. You can feel better and more confident for about 15 bucks. I'm 5'10" and I wear them, if I can be a hair under 6 foot then my inner game and confidence go up... | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Social Proof can turn you into a God.Just out of curiosity are you a white guy in Okinawa, and does that help or hurt with Asian women? From what I hear, its usually the former. Also, I'm established at one bar and becoming a regular at another, obviously a very good date idea, but you say you wait 2-3 dates before taking her, what would you reccomend as a date beforehand? | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Whenever I'm around guys that seem more "alpha" than me, I turn beta as shit.I recently moved to a completely new town, not knowing a single person and living in an apartment by myself. What I found is you should go to the same bar a good 3-4 times a week at the same time of day even if it's just for one drink. This helps you get in good with the bartenders and unless they are horribly busy they should be open for small talk which will help your banter and conversation skills. Not only did I make genuine friendships with them but they would start to make my drinks really… | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 04:11 PM |
| 7 | Lifestyle Guide (crosspost from /r/YouShouldKnow)The investing advice sounded like something Gary Busey would write. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Here's something I've never said in my life...^ This, times eleventy billion. | /r/seduction | 20/05/12 04:56 PM |
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