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[–]hunterpua 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
What you should really be looking for is a girl who also carries her own weight and at least carries half of the burden of the relationship regardless of whether its a serious relationship or just a casual one.
Even with the people we get along with the most, we can’t completely avoid the need to compromise to keep the relationship going.
Its only bad when you're the only one compromising but if you see that the girl is also willing to bend and put in effort to make things work then its fine for you to bend as well.
You won't snap from bending with a girl who bends with you because you will support each other and hold each other up to stop each other from reaching your breaking points.
You also won't need to bend as much because she's meeting you in the middle instead of making you bridge that gap all on your own.
[–]relentless_pma 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well by bending the guy hopes she will like him more. But you have to accept not all girls like you and thats OK.
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