Stop calling it 'approaching' or 'seducing' or even 'hitting on' girls. It's just talking.

vhmPook · 2012-03-21T13:14:58+00:00

the term sarging has to go, that's the gayest shit I've never heard.

2012-03-21T14:13:47+00:00

Just 'talking' leads to friendzone. It's called 'seducing', 'hitting', 'approaching' because it's meant to imply sexual intent. In fact, 'seducing' a hot girl is a lot more natural than just 'talking' to a hot girl because you are conveying that you want to fuck the living shit out of her, not pretend like all you want is to discuss politics or tell jokes.

sinking_sunk · 2012-03-21T13:56:07+00:00

The best ones make it seem just like talking. Just as the ballet pros make it seem like pretty "jumping up and down and spinning around."

As for the names, yeah - some are dumb, like sarging. But others are necessary for the newbies and fuck-ups out there (like me). For example, kinesthetics (kino) is an important part of building a relationship and there are good times to do it and bad times. After a while, it just becomes natural.

I understand where you're coming from, but there are some people who need the breakdown, because fuck - I can't ballet worth shit.

Title	Stop calling it 'approaching' or 'seducing' or even 'hitting on' girls. It's just talking.
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Upvotes	8
Comments	5
Date	March 21, 2012 11:49 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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