Hi everyone, first post here. I’m a university student and a fitness boy. I met a girl in the gym, she has some years more than me (but I’m not sure she know it) and she has a job. She will stay in my town for a further month and then she will moves (so limited time). After some casual talk in the gym and some little text on facebook, I asked her the number and some days after I asked her to get out. She accepted, and so we got out, I had organizate all the date, I pick up her (she has not the car) we did bowling and then we moved to a bar, we get a drink and then I brought her home. All was surprisly near perfect, I was confident and I think she also was, she laugh often and I practiced enouth fisical contact (even legs more than some time) and she seemed good with it. I paid the bowling and she paid the drinks (about the same price). At the bar maybe there was an IOT because I saw her watching my lips (I think, I may be wrong). When I got her home, befor leaving the car she made a statement: She debut with somethink like: “I want to make it clear, I don’t know what you expected, but I had a bad experience with a guy than after some date tried to kiss me but I did not want and he said that he was getting out just for this and if she is not interest then he is not interest on her, so … (now about me) I don’t know what you wanted, I just want be clear, if is like this is NO, if it is just to be friends is ok” I was imprepared about this, I tryed to do my best and I said: “ It's a bit weird speech” And she: “Why? What you mean? (visibly embarrassed)” I: “I simply not expected this speech, I know you will be here just for a mounth so I don’t expect anything, to me is ok to get out with you because I study all day and a distraction is good, then if something will happen good, but i’m not programming it”

Then we greeted and I go and to both visibly was like this speech destroied the magical evening.

Sure I will meet her again. But what I will have to do and what I will have to say? And what do you think abount what happened? How was my answer and how it would had been better? Further, at the moment I'm not meeting other girls and I will not for my commitments, so I want to play the game with her because she is interesting and is a good opportunity to practice.