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Striking up conversation

dpain31 · 2016-01-08T08:13:46+00:00

So I am pretty good at talking to girls if I don't have to start the conversation. I'm turning 19 next week and going to Florida for a small...

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January 8, 2016

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Title	Striking up conversation
Author	dpain31
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	January 8, 2016 8:13 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4007z5/striking_up_conversation/
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[–]TheFuckingIntern 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Anything. Literally anything. If you watch any of the RSD videos about openers. Really any PUA video or article about openers they all day the same thing, openers don't matter. Unless your opener is way to strong or way to weak then anything will do (and by too strong I mean something like "we'll aren't you a dirty whore" and too weak would be "um...umm....hi...what's your name", both these openers may work but they are easier to fuck up than if you were to choose something in the middle).

So back to openers. Openers are something that it's hard to give concrete examples on because every girl will be different, every situation will be different. Nevertheless, a few examples would be like "hey I just thought you were adorable/cute/goregoeus/etc and wanted to come over and say hi" or you can open by making a comment about her, the environment of just about anything.

At the end of the day what you have to realize is the actual opener lasts a few seconds and the actual conversation will last exponentially longer. You said it in the post that you are good with conversations so you have that down. For your opener I would approach a girl and make a comment about what she wears etc or even just straight up go up and say Hi. Literally anything will do.

After the initial opener ask a question that will lead to a conversation, "hey what are you doing on the beach/at the bar/in this town/etc" or make a comment about her that will lead to a conversation.

Lastly if the girl isn't receptive or doesn't want to talk don't take it personally, just move on, on to the next one.

Have fun on your vacation bro.

[–]TheMinistryOfAwesome 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]TheFuckingIntern 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]TheMinistryOfAwesome 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Actually copying others is pretty much how learning has worked since the beginning of mankind. Copy, edit, repeat.

Copying openers does work - of course it does... this is the whole point of routines and openers etc. Just because game has transitioned in the past 5-10 years from indirect, mechanical type learning to a zen like need for inner-peace and wisdom doesn't make it less effective. In a way it is more refined... people are peeling back those routines in layers to get to the fundamental points about why they work. Then just dishing out a purer form of knowledge that explains the reason behind the routines.

Example:

"Hey you, keep your hands to yourself, this shit aint free" - Mystery's line. Cocky funny and definitely a routine - i've used it, if you've read any of the earlier stuf fyou've probably used it.

Recent stuff finds out WHY that is attractive and then teach new stuff based upon that.

E.g. it's attractive because it demonstrates high value and being okay with losing something of her value. Furthermore it shows a comfort and sense of humour around the woman.

So, translated to inner game and the new-era stuff: "You should think that you're the shit, be comfortable with yourself, keep your own frame, self amuse etc."

You get the point.

that was a bit of a sideline.

The fact is... "anything" is like saying in a boxing match to an untrained amateur "hit him!". Well, sure, he can throw a few swings, on occasion he might hit, if he's lucky the other guy might catch a hard one and go down but all in all the untrained guy has too much to think about too much going on, too unfamiliary and doesn't know the proper technique. He'll get the shit kicked out of him reguarly.

Granted that is fast way to getting better - but still better to have some training first, wouldn't you say?

[–]dpain31[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link