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[–]leprogrammist 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
text game is not game. only the most desperate women need to resort to 'text game'. as has been said countless times you use texting to arrange real life dates only. not more not less. without body language she may not get your jokes or irony (because some women are plain dumb). usually these girls chat with 15 guys in parallel so you cannot ever have a 'meaningful' conversation. when you write your second sentence she already forgot the first because you have only 5% of her attention. whereas in real life you have much more. playing hard to get will not work here. as she doesn't even care whether you write or not.
[–]trump2016au 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I call first and build rapport and set up a time and day to hang-out. Text game is my last resort to purely set up a time hang out with her, and that is it.
[+]Andreas-Lubitz -10 points-9 points-8 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've been chatting this girl that I used to know recently she's a straight 9.
What's a "9" for you might not be a "9" for me or anybody else. Just use the word "attractive", it works.
I've been failing to spark or create a good vibe through messages.
I'll tell you what text messages are for, it's for appointing a date and time to meet. It's not a substitute for face-to-face interaction: touch, voice, eye contact, proximity and tone are crucial. Idiot.
I was contemplating asking her to hang which could help me revive my chances.
I was also contemplating the arrival of the Easter Bunny. You never had a chance to begin with, you are socially inept. You can't create sexual tension. You don't know what are looking for and you can't lead. Sooner or later this "9" of yours will 'put you on ice' and stop replying. Boring weirdo.
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[–]leprogrammist 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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