Struggling with developing my inner game.

TeBenny · 2018-04-03T20:59:41+00:00

Can't help but I can tell you you're not alone. Great outer game, ability to converse well, but inability to maintain relationships or deepen friendships. You just described me 😅. I have come to embrace this and yes while I do feel empty sometimes, I have learnt to minimize this by keeping busy by going out, playing ball or hitting the gym.

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-04-03T21:35:06+00:00

Small steps. Find some friends then work your way up to a GF

very_betic · 2018-04-04T00:14:27+00:00

Sounds to me like maybe you’re focusing on the outer game TOO much. People arnt looking for a power lifting guitar playing good looking guy, just a friend/significant other who they can relate with. Being able to confidently approach and talk/tease/joke with people are much more important. Try striking up more conversations with anyone and everyone who seems open too it. If those conversations go bad alright, but in time you’ll find someone who clicks/enjoys you. If you come up screaming look how hard I tried for you I learned a literal instrument!!! You’re going to make people uncomfy turn them off. I find a little self depreciation is very relatable and people enjoy. Maybe try something like while you’re in class saying it’s a good thing I stayed up all last night doing this class’s homework I hate being well rested! Prompting a convo about that class’s work and you can then slip in something along lines of well I wasted all my time during day lifting/playing guitar etc etc.

Title	Struggling with developing my inner game.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	April 3, 2018 8:39 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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