First let me say, I believe everything you guys are saying. I know it works. I've read thread after thread about texting and such and yet i'm struggling with the following:

  • I don't date a lot of women. I have kids 50/50, coach, etc. and have very limited time to go out.
  • I'm f'ng "needy" as pointed out by another user on here and he's 100% correct. Trying to work on it.
  • I really enjoy the texting and talking!!!
  • Finally, I have to fight myself to prevent sending a text. It's ridiculous really. I find myself always wanting to say something. When I do, I regret it immediately because now I'm at the mercy of her responding or not

K, that out of the way, here's where I am. New girl. Date coming Friday. We already met in person, long story, and had a great time together. Kino'd, kissed, gave me her number. This Friday we're headed out for drinks.

Should I flat out stop texting???? It would totally change my current pattern, including with her, but I'm tired of losing the girl and want to correct my awful habits.

Thanks in advance!

EDIT: Have not texted her today. lol I expect she'll text me tonight, which is why I'm asking this now.