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[–]Luis_McLovin 10 points11 points12 points 9 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
she wanted to study bruh and you can't control your horniness to actually make yourself interesting enough such that she'd want to get to know you
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[–]Luis_McLovin 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
chalk this one up. i dunno if you want some solid advice though id say a good way to curb that horniness is to get involved in some cool hobbies that make you interesting.
dancing, sports, music, whatever. dive in all the way. girls dig men with passion.
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[–]Luis_McLovin 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
ah thats the thing bro, dont be planning. i get it, your nerves fire up when there is a silence in the conversation. the number #1 thing you can do, honestly, is EMBRACE the silence. 100% serious, when I don't have anything to say (maybe beccause I simply don't want to, or couldnt think a next logical leap) you embrace the silence, and continue holding eye contact.
this is often where the other person in the conversation can now give a new impetus. or a natural conversation end. DONT FORCE IT.
Embrace the silence. become comfortable with yourself. chicks can sense it if you talk too fast, are trying to fill the silence for the sake of it.
if i want to continue talking and there is no next logical leap i make a new impetus. "tell me how your easter was" when perhaps we'd been speaking of what i do for a living.
chill and learn bro, you are young
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[–]GarlicSweetPotato 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, you said she had a boyfriend. I know I never put boyfriend in my snapchat/insta, but I would always make it clear to men that I had one (only if I got a flirtatious vibe, I am not one of those girls that assumes if you hold a door for me you are flirting).
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[–]GarlicSweetPotato 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am not a big social media poster anyway, but it wasn't intentional (we have recently broken up but were together well over a year).
I just have never really liked the blatant 'lovey dovey' internet romance thing.
[–]Luis_McLovin 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
think carefully about your first question. im really not being patronising or rude, but what kind of activity do you think studying is? its not like holding hands walking through a park.
sure, this could've been some sneaky ploy of her to get you two close to each other under false pretences in order to save face and avoid overtly expressing interest. though that would be an assumption on your part. and such a thing can occur with any activity.
studying, on its own, is platonic, yeah.
dont try to focus on "ifs", quite sincerely i doubt she would invite and im not saying this as any sort of reflection as to what kind of dude you are. simply put, she wont invite you over to hers to study.
for the sake of the convo ill entertain the question though, because its an imagined scenario which can be learned from regardless. if invited over for studying and she has made no explicit or suggestive intentions then you can either 1) put aside your interest and actually study (boring, but maybe its what you need to do if grades are suffering) or 2) go with the pretence to get to know her either in a friendly fashion or with more devious intent (seduction).
touch, innocently. lead the interaction, make demands (tell me about yourself) instead of questions (could you tell me about yourself?) as these are easy things to do which show confidence, DO NOT OVER INVEST, have a poker face devoid of 99.99% emotion, because you want HER to invest. if manipulation is the name of the game i'm your man, every guy has a dark/light side and you gotta know how to walk the fine line in between to get far.
[–]Luis_McLovin 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
more power to you friend, knowing is half the battle.
now listen to the little devil on your shoulder, if you still want the broad heres what to do: lay low for a while, she knows youre into her. what this will do is show you're not needy. if you're needy you're labelled a creep. let her come to you and avoid any interactions with her that are forced or contrived. remember, you're a cool dude who isnt horny desperate. forget about her and do other cool stuff. angel on your other shoulder would say the same though, stop bothering her and only interact normally/not-forced, the difference is the intent behind what you do, not actually so much what you do.
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[–]mouzer2 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you stupid? She just wants to study man. Oh my God!!
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