I've had the Rules of the Game book for a while now and while I was able to get a gf about a year ago while doing the challenge I've had very miniscule success with women since breaking up with her. I'm moving to a new city and decided this is the perfect opportunity to up my game. #newcitynewme

Things I have struggled in the past with include:

-Approach anxiety in bar/club settings -After approaching successfully running out of things to say/turning into an interviewer

Day 3:

Today's development work was meant to work on you vocal abilities and I practiced my vocal tonality, vocal speed, breath, and posture when speaking. I definitely could slow down and the other stuff is gonna take time and being intentional.

Challenge: Get three movie recommendations from random phone numbers

This was a lot more difficult than I thought because people tend not to answer numbers they don't know anymore so I modified it a little. Since it was Father's day I just told people I needed a movie to see for Father's day.

  1. Random number - No recommendation, the guy didn't watch movies, but he said a tie would make a good Father's day gift as a replacement.
  2. Dominos - pretended I didn't know it was Dominos and the girl recommended the new stars movie Solo.
  3. Random number in my phone I didn't know - I was pretty certain neither I knew the person in my phone nor did they know me. Got a recommendation for a Scooby doo movie. It may or may not have been a kid lol.

Conclusion: It was not as difficult to adapt to unknown situation, I just need to get comfortable with the uncomfortable.