SUB COMMUNICATION

In short, sub communication can be defined as the underlying messages that are sent through you're words, actions, tone, and body language. Game in general is mastering the art of sub communication, as knowing how to send these underlying messages is important in raising attraction. we don't normally consciously pick up these messages (unless were very aware of the topic of subcom, in that case the underlying messages are quickly picked up).

For most people, and by most people I mean the women that you're gaming. They usually pick up these messages that you send them subconsciously. You could openly say to her "hey, I'm a confident man." Which would most likely result in her seeing you as arrogant and losing attraction. Or, you could fix you're posture so you're shoulders are back and you take up space. This sub communicates that you're confident to her, and although she may not consciously think it, she understands that you're high value.

Now, sub communication can also be used to shift someone's emotions to reach an end goal. Let's say you're end goal is to get an f-close, you should pay close attention to how you're words/actions might affect them emotionally, you want to make sure that you're constantly sub communicating in a way that raises her attraction (negs, push/pull, deep tone that exudes confidence, proper eye contact, body language, all that good stuff) . A neg on a hot girl, if done correctly, does raise her emotional levels for you, which you'll know if you can properly read her body language. If her body language becomes more open, she plays with her her, she gives you that "did you just say that to me?" face and then switches it to a teasing smile, then she's subcommunicating that she's attracted.

There are plenty of different ways to read someone through the sub communications they send through their body language/words.

Examples:

  1. You look at her, she looks down after some eye contact: sign of submissiveness, sees you as higher value.

  2. You look at her, she tilts her head up and her eyes are above you: she believes her value is higher than yours, in that case you can use a cocky/funny joke to bring her down to you're level.

  3. She tells you "were not having sex" but her body language indicates that she's very attracted (a lot of touching on her part, giggles, blushing, smiling). This is a form of LMR and she's communicating that she still wants sex but doesn't want to be labeled as easy or a slut. In that case you can use freeze outs, which sub communicate to her that she may have made the high value man no longer interested, and she'll reply by trying to validate herself to you again. You can also use other methods that continue building attraction so she drops the LMR.

Using your words to sub communicate trust, value, and attraction are the three main ingredients to getting sex.

Sub communicate trust by letting her know you're non judgmental of her sexual history if she brings it up. Being non needy and supportive. Being there to listen if she gets emotional.

Sub communicate value by using confident body language, using social proof, displaying your strengths, being dominant and a leader.

Sub communicate attraction by teasing, push/pull methods, making intentions clear, sexual kino, sexual eye contact.

In short, understanding sub communication turns you into a man who "gets it". Which essentially what game boils down to. Men who "don't get it" don't effectively understand sub communication, and end up not understanding how to build attraction properly or they end up missing important hidden messages that women convey through their body language or words.

Guys who "get it" have the upper advantage. they can read the different signals that women give off (where as most guys would be confused and see them as mixed signals), they know how to build attraction in ways that aren't so open, they know how to effectively read a girl before approaching or read her during their interactions so he knows how to act accordingly, and benefits from many other things that come with mastering sub communication.