I started my "journey" in game about a year ago when studying abroad in Spain. At the time, I was disappointed with my ability to attract women, so I went online to find some answers. I stumbled upon RSD's youtube channels and immediately applied some of their principles. My success was quick, but limited. I was able to pull a girl from the club to a park, where we fucked behind a tree. I surprised myself with my new found ability and learned how easy it can be to attract women with the right mindset.

Unfortunately, this occurred during my last weekend abroad. When I landed back in the U.S for the summer, I realized how many opportunities I had missed to improve my game with all the beautiful women that were consistently around me. Fortunately, I had another couple years of college to really hone in on my abilities. I have just finished the first of those two years and am posting this for whoever is at the beginning of their own journey in game.

Over these past 2 semesters I have had sex with 8 new women, and have dramatically improved in all aspects of the social spectrum. I know these are not the most impressive results, but I have done this without a capable wingman, which I now consider to be a huge advantage. I now consider myself at an intermediate level and want to keep improving. These are my most important tips for any beginner's out there who are just starting out.

Fuck the Internet

I know many people who rely on their digital image to attract women (through instagram, snapchat, etc). Although I do agree that social media can be a powerful tool used to attract some of the most beautiful women, I think it is a bad place to build up your social skills. Why? Because the chase ultimately relies on the face to face interactions that take place in an intense emotional environment. The internet is void of the intense emotions that you can spur in a one on one situation, thus making it impossible to improve your game in any meaningful way. I deleted all of my social media accounts, and I have found that it allows me to see the women I meet at a much more human level compared with others around me who see people from their digital perspective. I think this separates me and gives me an advantage over others who allow their digital perceptions to hinder their face to face experiences.

--- The sentiment behind this is the same that u/yungdebt posted about with porn and sugar. Over stimulation will lead to less fulfilling interactions.---

I also think screening a girl on social media is absolute bullshit. When I used instagram, I would walk around my campus thinking everyone was ugly because I would be comparing them to all these instagram models. When I ditched that digital perspective I began to see the others in a much more organic light and women became substantially more attractive. I began to see attraction as an in the moment feeling between the girl and I and less as an ego driven desire to impress others around me. This frame has been important to my game and I think it is getting lost in our instagram driven world, which worries me. The implications of this are that many will never find the person they feel the most in touch with and will settle for the person that looks good on paper. This is sad to me and I think it should be avoided at all costs, which is why I say Fuck the Internet (at least when you are starting off).

Embrace the Asshole Gene

This may be dangerous information to spread, but I can not be more emphatic on how important this is. My most successful nights have taken place when I embraced my asshole gene. I do not mean this in a confrontational sort of way, but in a calling out bullshit sort of way. If you see something you do not like, say something about it. Don't be that guy who is too big of a bitch to stand up for himself and ends up taking bullshit from everyone that he hangs out with. That guy never gets laid because he cannot handle the pressures that comes along with life. Women will sense this and will stay away from you at all costs. Instead, say what you believe and stick up for yourself, especially if it is going to portray you as an asshole.

This asshole gene lives inside of all men, but some are able to suppress it better than others. Let it go. It is there for a reason. It is there to protect you from all the the shit that life throws your way and without it you will crumble when faced with a women's shit tests. Mark Manson has a cool article on this that can be found here https://markmanson.net/being-an-asshole.

Prepare to Fuck

If you are not prepared to fuck you will not fuck. Bring condoms with you when you go out. Have a clean room you are comfortable bringing someone back to. Have the Uber app to transport you back to your place. Etc. Do not be a pussy who is ok with just getting a number. Keep pushing and see how far you can get. Obviously be conscious of her body language and her comfort level, but more often than not if she is flirting with you, there is a way to finagle the situation into having sex that night. Or at least at some point in the future.

When I was first starting out, I never brought condoms out with me. This little subconscious mental barrier was hurting me more than I realized because when I began to bring condoms out I had a much higher success rate.

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That is all for now.