Five months ago I posted here, scared about my first day at a new school for high school. You guys gave me tons of helpful advice that left me feeling confident for the first day of school. I have gone through the last four months crushing it. I was purely myself, said hello to everyone, got to know a majority of my class, and made lots of friends. Three to four people say hi to me in the halls now. This was a huge change from my old school. Before I had 2-3 friends and everyone else thought I was kind of weird because I was so shut down. Now I am happy and say hello to everyone I see. I realized I had made it when a nerdy friend of mine asked me "How is everyone in this school your friend?" Finally, I kissed the first girl that I knew from school, before it was all cold approach. Oh and by the way I got a 4.3 GPA for the first semester with all honors classes. So I thank you for all of the advice you all gave me. So now I am ready to take the next step. First I will outline my problems. I realized that I am not physically attracted to the girl I kissed and everyone thought she was my girlfriend after I kissed her. No problem I explained to them we were just friends. The real problem is that I am not invited to ANYTHING by other people. Sure I talk to people no problem, but they never invite me to parties. This may be due to the fact that I am considered nerdy. How do I get myself invited to activities and break out of the label of nerdy? I should mention I only had time to invite people out once. One of them is the one I kissed later. This is due to my tournament schedule in two of my activities where I am top 100 U/18 in the US. I am not willing to sacrifice my activities for a social life. These activities also force me to be an in shape kid who is skinny as a pole which is not that attractive to girls. One girl I asked out basically told me to add on 20 pounds then get back to her. I do three hours a day of what is basically cardio in my sport, so I am basically skin and bones despite eating 3k calories +. Also I don't have a phone and deleted my facebook as I felt as though it was detracting from my time spent doing more productive activities. My next question is how can I attract girls I am into at my high school? I am friendly with five girls, and I am attract to three of them. They only think of me as a friend I believe. I think it may be due to the fact that, to quote one of my friends "People think you are a raging homosexual." This is due to my high voice and cheeriness always. How do I appear to be more of a boyfriend possibility and less of a friend? Also I want to become friend with more girls. How would you recommend going about this? Thank you for all of your help in the past.