A lot of us get into pickup because of some sort of breakup, so I thought it would be appropriate to help some of the guys out there seeking to get over their ex

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I believe the best advice on how to get over a hot ex girlfriend is to accept that this is the best thing for you. The relationship wasn’t meant to be, and you need to embrace the breakup with all your heart, mind, and soul.

Practice acceptance for one hour

Instead of regretting the breakup, grieving the breakup, or beating yourself up over the breakup…try accepting and even being glad about it. Just try this for one hour. Changing how you think about the breakup will help you get over it.

I actually think I lied when I wrote the first sentence of this article: the more I think about it, the more I believe that this is one tip that will help anyone and everyone get over a breakup! I’ve been reading a lot of Byron Katie lately; she writes about the power of our thoughts. We don’t have to believe everything we think. If we think the breakup was the worst thing to happen to us and we’ll never get over it…then voila. We’re stuck in our pain.

If you believe the breakup was meant to be, that it frees you to be happier and healthier than before, that you’ll survive and find someone even more compatible to be with, then it’ll be easier to get over the breakup.

Make a list of benefits of breaking up

Part of practicing acceptance is being grateful for the good things your breakup brings. If I lost my husband, I’d be grateful for extra free time, not having to do dinner dishes (I’d eat popcorn or salad every night!), and not having to compromise on which church to go to. I’d also get a second dog!

How has your life changed for the better since the breakup? I am 100% certain that there have been positive changes because you broke up for a reason. There was something off in your relationship, your life, or your self – and you know it.

This is your chance to accept it. Change how you think about the breakup, and you won’t just get over it – you’ll create a whole new life.

Do you think this might help you get over the breakup? I welcome your thoughts below. I can’t offer advice, but writing may help you move forward and heal.

If you’re scared you’ll never find anyone else, read How to Be Happy Single Even If You’d Rather Be in Love.

“He brought out the worst in me, and was the best thing that ever happened to me.” – Coco J. Ginger.

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