Text game improvement

MoonpieSonata · 2017-09-30T09:06:17+00:00

Number 1 rule is keep it short. You are not trying to make her understand how you feel at that moment, you are trying to get a result.

A side point which is related to how you feel. She is looking to build a picture of you. Let her do it. Let her build the fantasy. So keep it short and playful and concentrate on getting you both together. Don't give too much away about you. Just your intent to meet. I appreciate that is slightly abstract.

Make it clear you are busy but are keen on meeting up soon, but initially no specific. Especially mention it if you are doing something cool. If you get positive signs of interest in meeting up, then try pin down a date, but suggest it, don't ask.

Always be leading the encounter.

Timing between messages is an interesting one. Be prepared to leave hours, even a day or 2 between messages. Playing it cool. Too keen is too needy.

Expect to ramp up the tempo a bit when you reach a hook point and plan a meeting. But cool off again when plans are set.

There is a reason fishing is a much used analogy, yoj have to reel them in a bit, release, repeat til you catch.

Keep it fun. Remember, she has to qualify herself to you too. But you don't know eachother yet. Couples argue, people annoy eachother, keep her off a pedastal. You also need to realise, the only thing separating her from the sea of other girls is that you have decided, "yeah I would definitely have sex with her" and engaged her. She is not special. Its just fun.

Never send more than 3 texts without a response. And if it is someone you are likely to see socially again, just be cool and fun again. Don't take it personally and don't re-engage til you see her again.

Likewise, if she bails, be cool too. She may be a flake, she may have met someone else (I am.usually texting more than one girl), she may have been taken home in an ambulance (has also happened) so don't go crazy thinking its all about you.

Its ultimately a numbers game, the whole thing is a game and should be fun. Be cool and a bit aloof.

MisterBurgerFace · 2017-09-30T13:38:17+00:00

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Title	Text game improvement
Author	Twobithatter
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	September 29, 2017 11:51 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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