So I met this beautiful girl at a party last night and # closed. I texted her a bit after she left the party just to lay a foundation, nothing crazy though just witty banter. Then, following my protocol, I waited until around 4 this afternoon to hit her up and texted her this: "Hey last night was awesome, hope the hangover's not too bad. Come meet me for coffee sometime this week! I was thinking (local cafe) on tues or weds." I thought that was a pretty solid opening text but you be the judge.
Anyway, she ended up responding about 3 hours later with this: "god last night was great haha and my hangover isn't too bad at all! unfortunately, i'm busy all week getting ready for my party (won't elaborate on the party but suffice it to say that this is a legit excuse) so I can't make any promises"
So, in essence, what I'm asking is, what do I make of the: "so I can't make any promises," part? Is that a shit test? Because it seems like she's open to hanging out, but is busy, and doesn't want to make any plans that she'll have to flake out on. Those are my thoughts, but I'm interested in what you think seddit! How should I play this in my response? I want to hang out with her this week, but at the same time I want to express how busy I am and my abundance mentality in my response. (Also I've waited about 3 hours in order to match or exceed her response time). What do you think seddit?
there doesn't seem to be anything here