Im 18 and in college. There’s this girl who’s number I got and we texted a bit, deciding we’d also go get coffee together. However, she flaked and we never really discussed it. 3 days later I found out she had a boyfriend.

This Saturday, at the club she told me that she broke up with him after he cheated on her the night before. Not even 5 seconds after she told me that, I pulled her in and we made out for a little bit. Ubered back to her dorm and her roommate was there and it was fine, we went to walk a tiny bit before I went back to sleep at mine (in the moment it didn’t seem like I could pull her to mine).

Haven’t texted her since I wanted to give her space as she just got out of the relationship. I saw her briefly from far yesterday. What should I do? Just wait to see her and talk? I also don’t want to just be a rebound.

Another issue is that I’m also really into this other girl and she’s also great. I think she’s also into me but ive just been struggling to pull her at the club as we are surrounded by all our friends and whenever we dance she sometimes wanders off to start dancing with her friends. I play this off by doing something else to make it seem smooth. What should I do with her?

I don’t want to just play both girls and I want to be as moral as I can about it. Not trying to break hearts here. Just wanted some advice. Ideally looking for relationship as well.