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[–]ethe_ze 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this isnt a solution but i can see how texting can be difficult. They say to not be her texting buddy when you are not dating yet so you have to be straightforward and flirty they say while setting up a date. The problem is this forces guys who dont really want to date so it consequences to rejection because you are asking them what you really dont want to do or know how to do. idk its late night so im tired and slumped
[–]Yam_Dangerous -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Say hello it simple and yet effective in the long run
[–]Plane_Commercial855 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Chill but douchey. She want you you just want her body dont over complicate shit there are plenty of woman just say whatever the fuck you want she'll have to adjust. And you can question everything she says if you dont know what you wanna talk about.
Most important you learn by faillure so just play the game how you think
Sorry not a native enlish speaker.
[–]incognito3107 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Have fun with your texting. Induce variety of emotions. Relate to your real life situation. Make some flirty comments.
I feel that many guys are just too obsessed with making each conversation perfect, when it all is really about maintaining emotions and spending good time texting together. Real game is in real life.
[–]Affectionate-Hand788 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Tell her you miss the stalker eyes and see what she sends you. Tell her you’re not good at texting and invite her over so she can help you text messages to her. Give a time and date, say you’re going to be there, if she shows up, great, if not move on. If she doesn’t show, text her selfies of you having fun there.
[–]spiderSlayerr 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yea idk about all that. Cringe asf. Just say you are interested in getting to know her (insert something seductive) and tell her a day and time. Some public place like a restaurant, Tim Hortons etc… go for a hike after. Don’t be all friends like. Your not her friend. She’s not your friend. I wouldn’t want you msging me like I’m your buddy when your not. Be straightforward with your intentions and escalate irl. In 1-2 msges you will know if she is interested don’t waste each other’s time.
[–]Affectionate-Hand788 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah I disagree with your advice. Going for coffee is one of the most cringe boring things to do. You need to understand the frame. You’re setting him up like you want them to be buddies. Present yourself as the prize instead of waiting for acceptance from the woman. You as the man has the plans, either she is interested or she isn’t, don’t wait for her to get onboard, keep your movement flowing. I can’t help you if you don’t understand that.
[–]spiderSlayerr 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t text girls (regularly), I don’t take any girls snapchats( I’ll decline the offer and say I don’t use), I don’t want your Instagram I don’t care about your beach pictures. I go to nightclubs alone I don’t need friends to restrict me (I don’t get nervous) and I go in person to meet girls I’m interested in if I wanna talk to someone I go in person. If I text I send 1-2 msgs max. Maybe I have a 1995 mind set but it’s a lot better than worrying over social media crap
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