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[–]sixfeetunder98 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You should be busy enough with your own life and multiple girls that there is a natural delay. The gap you leave is far less important than what you text. Make every single text interesting and warranting a reply and you’ll never fail.
[–]atticusishe 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for the reply!
[–]mattxgal -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No. Be the leader, not the follower. Be the cause, not the effect. Text at whatever pace YOU want.
Doesn't mean that you should text immediately after she responds, but don't feel like you should text at a slower pace or be equal to hers, especially if she takes a few hours to respond.
I've made this mistake before and it can be a big turnoff for the girl on her end if you're only passing back and forth a few messages a day that can be done in 30 seconds over the phone.
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah that seems about right. Unless the guy I'm texting with brings up a discussion then it's as long as whatever we are talking about.
[–]tripmepls -2 points-1 points0 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Text her back at a slower pace than she’s texting you
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