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[–]Joeboard 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I dont plan on making that drive, although some of the guys at work are trying to pursuade me to. And IF i did, and didnt get laid, im pretty sure that would be pretty much the end of that.
Kinda still up in the air about inviting her to the city with me (which is up by me).
I wanna hit it forsure, but rather sooner than later. Most of the girls ive dated recently (mid - late 20s) seem boring and have too much baggage. Its nice to see someone like her with a rockin body, still wanting to go out and have fun.
[–]piinkmoon 7 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Obviously she’s not for you if a drive isn’t worth it because you might not get laid. So, don’t say girls middle - late twenties are boring when by the sounds of this post, you have no interest in actually talking to her. Also, it doesn’t sound like she likes you all that much. Don’t ask about the show in NYC.
[–]Joeboard 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well i can appreciate your insight, but you seem very butthurt over something.
Tbh, no, I cant see us seriously dating when best case scenario we would see eachother once a month. That is just a disaster waiting to happen. If she was local, then I absolutely would be interested in dating her.
And im pretty certain the feelings are mutual. Shes not looking to date either, however there is a fair amount of sexual tension between us. There isnt really a reason a 21yr old girl would be texting someone 8yrs older than them, unless they were interested.
I dont want to pressure her into anything, i also dont want to just go ghost until she gets back. And i also dont want to become just a friendly texting buddy while she is getting plowed by someone else.
[–]piinkmoon 7 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
You could just flirt with her over text till break. Tbh you are crossing some weird boundaries here bro. You can’t be mad about being friendly texting buddy while she’s hooking up with other guys cause you aren’t her boyfriend. There’s nothing you can do about that. If you like her then just keep in touch till break. If you guys are really close then ask her to the concert. You just have to accept she’ll be your friend until December and then make a move
Maybe i wrote that wrong, i dont expect her to see me exclusively. I expect her to live her life as a single college girl. I just know how the texting game goes, it gets boring fairly quickly. you run out of things to say, attraction dies and then you just remain platonic buddies.
Im not really close with her, just thought it might be fun for her aswell as myself. Im not loaded, but I have a decent job and i dont know any girls that wouldnt like to have a fun time in the city and not have to worry about paying for anything. But again, i dont want it to come off as im pressuring her to sleep with me.
And the 2hr drive for me to a college campus just doesnt make sense. Its in the middle of nowhere, not much to do. Atleast up by me, we can have a few drinks, go see a show, explore the city a bit and see where that takes us.
[–]DarkArtsPUA113 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
forget about her completely. go out and get more girls
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