Hey all, Just wanted to thank you guys, I just had a breakup from a serious LTR and had lost a lot of confidence in getting out there, so Iread over this reddit I got a lot of tips for being confident and how to approach people. I went by myself to a small club/lounge, stepped out of my comfort zone and managed to talk to about half of the people there, both guys and girls, not worrying about any expectations. I had a great time, leaving feeling hopeful and not depressed about my situation. Several girls volunteered their names to me without me asking and I was invited to a party, and by the end I would be chatting with people who were like "oh you were talking to my friend X or introducing me to people that I had already met that night" and (also a "I have a boyfriend and my girlfriends are here...") Anyway, thanks, you helped me out a lot in this time.