So this isn't the most over the top thank you or anything. I didn't get laid, I didn't get a kiss, I didn't even get a number, However tonight I was the organizer of my friends, got a couple out to a club, started out with just one female friend, went full fuck it I don't care mode and just talked to a girl, later got her to dance with us, went off and danced with another girl.

Yea I coulda done better, I coulda gotten a number maybe, pushed a little harder or flowed a little better in the first conversation, I sorta peeled out pretty quick, but there was that awkward pause and I'm just getting into this so I wasn't at that point to push through that yet, but like I said I got this girl dancing with us later just by seeing her on the edge and looking her dead in the eye and holding out my hand.

So thanks for the couple of posts recently talking about how their "transformation" came after they realized they needed to stop caring, it made me realize the last 2 numbers I've gotten, were when I myself wasn't trying, I just went in with no expectations, and that's the attitude I took tonight and it went great for me. Baby steps, baby steps, again, thanks to those that post here.