I first found reddit sometime last spring. Back then I only read reddits main page and some other random subreddits. During the summer I didn't have anything to do.. I just drank a alot and was really alone inside. I was really sad.

After the summer when the school started I really started to want to have a girlfriend. I was 23, I had never had a serious relationship before and I was really unconfident. Me and my friends went out clubbing a lot that autumn, most of the time I was really sad inside, eventhough on the outside it seemed that I was having fun..

I was really afraid of social encounters.. Seddit helped me with that a lot. I read your posts about meeting women and how not to be that anxious. Later that autumn I found the online dating sites and I started looking for interesting women. I started chatting with some people, some were interesting and good. I was really nerveous, eventhough it was only online (lol). I read a lot of seddit during that time.. How to act with women, how to become more confident, how to make it.

Finally, last december I met the woman of my life. We synced instantly and talked almost 4 weeks online before meeting live. We're still together after 8 months and I can't see us ever breaking up. She is so good to me and she says I am really good and nice to her.

So thank you seddit! I learned a lot from you. I did meet women in bars, but they weren't for me. I met women online and found the right one. You gave me the confidence to approach women and to talk with them. Without you I would probably still be alone and sad. :)