I need help guys, I think I'm catching the one-itis.. So there's a girl that I have been hanging out with. She likes to play the mind games and I get the vibe that she wants me to chase her (which I don't want to do) however here is where it gets weird..this past weekend she went with me out of town for a business party I had to attend, long story short we had drinks and had sex. Even after this she is still playing hard to get, I always have to initiate the kiss, which kind of bugs me. How do I get her to start chasing me? I feel like we are both playing the chase game and feel like at the end it's not going to get anywhere and she is going to get tired of me..also how do I prevent the one-itis lol.. Also she sometimes calls me girl, but she say's it in a joking matter.. which I hate. How do I respond to that?