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[–]tokerjoker7 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Instead of grabbing, just stick you hand out like the classic "would you care to dance" gesture. This is risky because you're grabbing someone and pulling them which can be seen as very aggressive. You can pull off the same confidence without having to be kinda rapey about it.
[–]LuciKat1 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg yes!!! If I was attracted to a man and the first thing he did was grab me, I’d be appalled! Attraction over! But the gesture you mentioned would totally work for me!
[–]sweet_boy94[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What your reffering to is what some call "Hand Of God" and is also a good move but you run the risk of her leaving you hanging. Also if done correctly The Claw technique shouldn't come off as aggressive, the idea is not to yank her arm in an aggressive way but rather slowly take her arm and guide her towards you.
[–]tokerjoker7 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's it! I completely forgot the name thanks for mentioning it.
[–]fudgetablet 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Instead of grabbing, just stick you hand out like the classic "would you care to dance" gesture.
Yep. I think that's better too. Done that many times! However, it can also lead too a pretty brutal rejection if she doesn't think you're hot lol. I've had a few! Quite funny in hindsight
Oh for sure, but that's why it shows so much confidence and better to be left hanging than possibly creating a misunderstanding.
[–]LuciKat1 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Honestly I don’t think this is a good idea... women hate being touched without their permission. Unless given permission please don’t touch. And this girl was probably shy and didn’t want to make a scene if you flipped out over the rejection. Women tend to act timid when they’re afraid so that they don’t invoke the beast in a man. The friend rescue is a thing too. I don’t think she was into it... maybe she was before the grab.
[–]sweet_boy94[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah pretty much, that's why its a "high risk, high reward" move, but if it goes right it can be great. You're right about the friend thing being a rescue but believe me when I say the girl was attracted. Im fairly experienced in this and I can tell when a girl is feeling me.
[–]LuciKat1 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Understand however if I’m attracted to a man and he acted so aggressively I would immediately be turned off. I hate being touched by someone without permission especially when we’re not familiar. A simple “hello” would do or invite me to mutual touch like a handshake or whatnot... but to just grab my arm... would be a 17373838% turn off regardless of how much I was initially attracted.
[–]sweet_boy94[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes I understand and you are correct. But not all women will have the same reaction and some will be more receptive than others. Thats why I asked the question if anyone had tried it to see what kind of reactions they got.
[–]LuciKat1 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Like simply my point is she probably was attracted but you came on too strong and ruined it.... people changed their minds and that probably changed hers..
[–]quinnmcd[M] [score hidden] 6 years ago stickied comment (1 child) | Copy Link
This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.
Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?
As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.
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