Hi all,

I've noticed that this seems to be my main hindrance. I have no issues talking to people etc, but it's usually the quality of my chat/small talk that doesn't always help me. I think I come across as a clown rather than funny...despite people laughing etc. Basically, I don't get taken seriously.

What is the main difference between someone who is good at talking and someone who just talks rubbish, and how do I switch from just chatting s**t to being seen more seriously and in a better light (rather than a joker/clown type person).