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Red Pill ExampleForeverInYou/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 04:51 PM
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DebateForeverInYou/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:25 AM
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ForeverInYou/r/askTRP03/07/19 10:56 PM
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ConversationForeverInYou/r/seduction24/01/20 02:48 PM
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Maybe it is purge week or something? The most awful stuff I’ve ever read there was on purge week, where people post the most ironic stupid and preposterous shit
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 09:20 PM
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Not being redpill is different for me. I also moved to another continent. I had several hobbies I wanted to explore and just one girl friend that I never hit on. She presented to her friend. In my hobbies I met several cool women. At s company party I viver with a girl while not being any deceitful. Put yourself where other people want to meet other people, have fun with life! Life is not just about material achievements and “leveling up”(very redpill mindset even though os not bad per se)
/r/ExRedPill02/11/22 01:15 AM
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Therapy therapy therapy. With an actual good therapist. If you know how to search for sex strategies you can Google how to find a good therapist. Therapy is about finding your own way, you're unique, no pre defined model will ever work
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 06:34 PM
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This is just toxic. Heterosexual women want Heterosexual men, half of humans are born men and half are born women, this is much more simple and intrinsic in us than we try to wrap our brains about.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 09:18 AM
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I'll list some things that I found extremely bad for me and people around me: - Pretending I know more than anyone because I've seen "the truth". I got good advice from friends with a good heart. - AWALT, is shitty advice, but from my experience, yes, if you dread your girlfriend hard enough they will all hate you and eventually try to find a way out of the relationship. Every human is different, I know it doesn't seem like if all our lives we got bad relationships (why did we came to the RedPil…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 01:01 PM
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It has been a long journey for me. I had 0 knowledge on how to "get a girlfriend and sex", so I searched up online and eventually found the redpill. I followed all the tactics, started gym, did dread, act disinterested, said the right things, and a lot of times got girls into my bed. Eventually I found that every relationship I had was toxic and I've wasted a lot of time "gaming" instead of actually building a life with someone else and being a positive energy for the people I've loved. Eventual…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 12:49 PM
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The best ones has a large open area with not so loud music or only the remnaiscent from the dance floor
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:39 PM
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Wow, cool to read this man!
/r/seduction31/12/21 05:30 PM
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you may have Fearful Avoidant style Great input!
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 09:23 AM
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Holy sh*t...... I was Anxious-preoccupied internally but outwardly Dismissive-avoidant as a RedPiller, my ex was a full Anxious-preoccupied, which according to wikipedia seeks Dismissive-avoidant... It's perfect. ​ Thank you a lot for bringing this up... Things are making more and more sense, I always thought me being redpill attracted a damaged "type" of women.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/21 09:40 AM
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Yeah, fresh & fit which is the new wave are being with girls that want sugar daddies, the complete opposite of red pill...
/r/ExRedPill15/12/21 09:27 AM
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You don't need a man telling you how to be a man. You'll know better than anyone else. This anxiety is very common when we see youtubers getting rich, girls, and so on. Forget all this shit for a while, be yourself even if you think you're being dumb or ridiculous, at the very least you'll stop creating difficulties where it's not necessary.
/r/seduction10/08/21 11:32 PM
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Exactly what I needed, thanks man
/r/TheRedPill23/06/21 02:02 PM
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Nowadays I approach sex in this manner too, fast, slow, phases. Control, release, feel the girl, smell her, I'm very kind but also brutal in the same session, it's working great. But what I'm more curious about is your Yoga practice. I really love to do it, but I'm a bit tired of choosing the best youtuber with the best content, I wanted to try something more spiritual and more close to meditation. How did you find your master? You practice alone, online, or with your master? If you can expand o…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/21 12:09 PM
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lmao vacines cause autism now Other than that nice write up
/r/TheRedPill03/05/21 06:40 PM
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You really want to be the second choice on someones life? The consolation prize?
/r/seduction24/02/21 07:56 PM
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Yes, going to music festivals is awesome because I can scream whatever I want and talk LOUDLY without any shame
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 01:09 PM
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This is the exact realization I had last week. I'm doing therapy and I had an alcoholic father and controlling mother, and to this day I can't express some of my emotions, either being anger, love, etc. If you're not "fixed", some RedPill tips will actually worse your condition. We always talk about not hamstering, but also about reason over emotion. For someone like me, I have enough reason already, I have to express my emotions more. I have to tell a girl that I want to be with her, tell my bo…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 01:06 PM
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SMV exists in every part of the human society, but in some places at least APPEARS to be less relevant. It's not my plan to move there to be able to be a fatass, but it's interesting to know the differences in quality of life and the necessity of work your ass off.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 07:06 PM
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It's been a long time since I've done this. What should I do if I command something and the girl refuses/doesn't consent. To me I feel like I lost my power, but I think I must reframe
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 12:09 PM
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The problem is that my friends that live in Germany say that german young men won't do shit. They just play video games, watch tv, do whatever, but NEVER approach. At the same time, if they help a girl friend that they have with a bag, she'll storm about how she can take care of herself and that she doens't need no man. Crazyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:39 AM
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I'm planning to move to europe next year... How is the general terms of red/blue pill dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 07:15 PM
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Foi deletado pela moderação
/r/seduction15/12/20 07:01 PM
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Qual é o plano pros próximos dias? Vi que seu primeiro post do assunto foi deletado
/r/seduction15/12/20 06:49 PM
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I don't believe discussing relationships is NSFW
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:12 PM
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Thank you mod
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:04 PM
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NSFW tag please!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:01 PM
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Well success must be the 1# important thing. Drop porn, sugar, dumb friends, dumb people, dumb habits. Make it so the only thing that fills your brain with good chemicals is success in what you want. Easier said then done
/r/askTRP17/10/20 02:34 AM
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you should never shoot the messenger I have a lot of trust issues. In my last relationship I've said a few times "I do believe a lot in honesty, it's the only way we can work", but anyway she lied about some stuff to make me like her more "I never did anal; I never liked to suck any dick as yours, etc", and to hide stuff that I potentially I would not aprove "you can always pick my phone, I NEVER delete messages" (were deleting messages). TBH it seems case closed to me, but how can I be more cle…
/r/askTRP14/10/20 07:27 PM
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I agree with you. But what if I have to pick up close to her place, and ask her to pick and bring to me when we see each other? To me it seems a reasonable thing to ask.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 01:25 PM
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If you're getting lots of rejection with girls, you're not going to be afraid of being rejected when you apply to a great job offer. You'll be able to handle the stress better and think more clearly what you can do to reach your goal. Confidence comes from accepting that you'll make mistakes (and making them) and preparing better for the future situations. Lastly, if you fuck a good hot pussy, your next week will be awesome, you have conquered a little bit of the world, you were so good of a man…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 12:19 PM
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Certainly is a trade off, but getting better at game and talking to people can leverage your skills that help you make more money, get more promotions, do better in interviews, etc.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 12:07 PM
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Basically I’ve learned to never ask her do to shit for me This means she does things on her own to please you? If not, then why bother having someone that doesn't want to do small stuff to you? Even so, not having the freedom to ask for favor for your LTR seems too much try hard to be "the man", what kind of cold relationship is this?
/r/askTRP18/09/20 11:52 AM
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Your post history tells all man, do the right thing, you'll find someone way better
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:08 PM
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Well that sucks a lot. My ex-GF almost made me got banned from a club she was DJ, and spread shit to 2000 followers she has. What can I say, lots of people think she's crazy, lots other people think I'm abusive. Most of the people doesn't even know me, so I guess it doesn't have to stop me.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 04:45 PM
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Thanks brother, things are pretty forward, I'll do this
/r/askTRP04/09/20 04:27 PM
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Yeah I've already improved since joining RP, I think I need more women to pump my morals and stuff. I'll try, thanks broda!
/r/askTRP04/09/20 04:25 PM
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So the thing is test it out and see what girls find me high SMV?
/r/askTRP04/09/20 04:15 PM
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Yeah man, I keep thinking that somebody will arrest me, or the girl will be underage and scream for cops, all this stuff
/r/askTRP04/09/20 03:56 PM
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My tip man, get rid of your phone, youtube, reddit, facebook and even maybe Netflix for just ONE WEEK. You'll see how much addicted we can be. I promise you you'll feel a lot better and will have looots of time, it's like time has stopped.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 10:10 PM
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I actually not that comfortable writing long texts, so I shorted things up. The story is much more complex, she was a whore only before I met her and only discovered the fact when we broke up our 6 month relationship. I only had 'strange feelings' that she was not who she said she was. Months passed and she wanted to reconnect, I was treating her like a plate, at this time I sensed some things that were also strange. I thought she was being a camgirl or simply a prostitute or something, even tho…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 01:55 PM
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Yeah you're right, in any way we're so much ready as we can be. We're here to learn.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 09:24 PM
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Lol tell me why bro, I want to improve my writing
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 07:47 PM
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Man, I'm about a year into the gym. Got new muscles, but my belly is fat. Really wanted to cut, but I'll surely become quite small, do you think it's worth it?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/20 07:56 PM
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Yeah, meeting important people while cold approaching is something I don't really want to count on, but cold approaching turns me into a social beast for all my interactions, it's great
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:39 PM
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I'm having sex every other weekend, doing 50 days of nofap, and this is my reality too. Maybe if I banged a girl every week....
/r/askTRP31/07/20 02:05 AM
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Man that's ok, but I guess my biggest fear is people screaming and I'm being arrested for harassment or Covid transmission or something
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 01:25 AM
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I was actually thinking about this today... While wearing masks, the probability of you getting/spreading covid is pretty null. I think it's not "too" risky to do cold approaches, comparing as to actually meeting someone without a mask. I'll continue cold approach and will try to avoid actual contact, let's see how it goes....
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 12:57 AM
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75% heart defects from covid survivors Holy shit mate, this changes my view a bit lmao. I'll study what consequences it can have. I guess it could be time to focus on my SMV, but at the same time, I don't want to be an excuse to not practice. Maybe I can select some plates and make a deal to avoid other people or something, but the thing is that women lie aswell so...
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 01:38 AM
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Myabe here in brazil the situation is reverse, since a lot of girls can live with their old moms or grandmas. But thanks for the post, yesterday I started to cold approach again... Initially I'm just making baby steps, asking what time it is, etc, but I'll continue this during the pandemic.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 02:58 PM
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Yes, it's a very good blog. Thanks a lot for the info man, I'll dive into it
/r/askTRP26/07/20 01:58 PM
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Yeah, her wall is definitely inside her head. Also are you really well to do? That could also be one of the reason Sorry, didn't understand the question mate. If you're asking if I was well with life at the time, well, I was. I thought everything was paying off you know, got a "RP" girl, beautiful, loyal, don't fuck around, etc
/r/askTRP26/07/20 01:40 PM
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Yeah I'm certainly very naive, I want to get lots of experience now. A womens game cant work if you know she is trying to manipulate you I always heard about it and thought I was above all of this, but certainly indeed have different levels of game, now it finally clicked. The same way a guy can game a girl without her even realizing, there's the opposite.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 09:07 PM
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lol, this is me man, this article is actually one of the best I've ever read. I have to say, she asked for commitment in the fourth month, I was a pussy and accepted. She later said she would never see me again if I really rejected commitment with her that time. May she would still pursue me, but is also a tell that she was looking for commitment, not for ME
/r/askTRP25/07/20 08:46 PM
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Yeah, her previous BF beated her, almost raped her, lied a lot to her, had an actual GF and died from an OD. Sometimes I wonder if the best girl is the more damaged ones... I don't know, I did not dated many girls. Anyways, I was not abusive, but I certainly wasn't a nice guy at all with her. The very few times I tried to be nice, I regretted the same second. I could instantly see in her eyes she seeing me as clingy/boring you know? Can you share any experience like that man? Thanks
/r/askTRP25/07/20 08:40 PM
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Yeah I really did that to most of the extent, but I guess maybe she did a cold read like the other guy said, since from the very start I was being the most player I could be. This is also why I think I only attracted 'bad' girls, I'm not calibrated enough. This is why you have to come across as a non judgmental But yeah I'll keep in mind this She's not even reaching the wall, was just somewhat desperate I think.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 08:27 PM
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She played the game well! It makes A LOT of sense. She even believed that she was the one that seduced/conquered me, I thought she was tripping with some fempower, but it seems she really made effort to 'game' me. She finds out what you like and just give a reflection to get what she wants. Damn, this is kinda scary. She fucked with so many guys that she knows what a man really want. In RP I read a lot about girls inheriting the mate behaviors with time, but this is different, she really did som…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 08:17 PM
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Very insightful, thanks man
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:59 PM
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It was incredible how much she made me believe she was perfect. Awesome blowjobs, always prioritized my pleasure in bed, and always said things like 'well I never kissed guys on work (she is a DJ), but you were so damn hot', etc etc.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 01:44 PM
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Yeah, I definitely not mastered enough game. I'm usually very 'redpilled' when gaming, so the only girls that stick around are the ones that don't mind being treated with too much indifference.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 01:41 PM
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Yes, you're right. On one side she is very good, but in the other I'm far too afraid of being cucked. Plate status for sure
/r/askTRP25/07/20 01:39 PM
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Hey man, thanks for this! I have to ask, how do you deal with Covid? Do you approach more distanced from the person? You knowledge the risks and so on? Thanks!
/r/seduction24/07/20 11:40 PM
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Yeah, I'm kind of divided man. She's already wasting my time with this bullshit, but the thought of us together with more girls is very appealing. Well, I think I have a 80% chance of her saying no. I'll think about all of this for a week or so and see what I do. Thanks
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:56 PM
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But at the same time, now I can maybe even upgrade the relationship. I understand, never dig the trash, I'll find better girls and so on. But in this situation what do you think will happen if she accepts? It will be shit? Is my frame already dead?
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:29 PM
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Yeah, I understand. But she gives me head like crazy, she cooks for me, massages me, cleans my room, she's almost a little slave... I she is incredible. Is not my ONLY option, but now at least is far the best one
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:14 PM
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Even if no STDs you can get shit (literally) from anal. I got from my ex-GF, we both got tested, and the cause was literary that an infection was in place because I put my dick inside her poop hole
/r/askTRP22/07/20 02:57 PM
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I have two friends that don't ask anything.... Some girls even dig it. But yeah, i see your point. It's not worth any confusion that it may arise
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:03 PM
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I was planning to do 36 hours or more fasts, so I don't have to be in a caloric deficit for months to get the body fat I want. I'm currently with 16%... Would you recommend? And of course, I don't plan to loose muscle in the process.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 08:55 PM
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GOLD content Uncle Vasya. My last GF was naturally a submissive girl. She already had some of these collars and I loved to make her my little slave, very fun. I sometimes didn't know if doing BDSM with her would be good for her... She was abused by her dad unfortunately, but she loved and even when everything ended she also said she love it... So I guess I have to trust her and what you've said. Your writing and music taste are awesome, I literally can see and feel everything you laid out. Thank…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 03:39 PM
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I can't tell you that. I don't know how difficult the exam is and how much you already know. Simple thing is: If you think you're not studying enough, study more. If you think you have too much free time, better yourself in some other ways.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 11:39 PM
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I think it has more to do with your goals. The only time I was able to study 10+ hours a day it was when I was preparing myself for a good 30h week job. It would able me to do a lot of more stuff with the free hours I would have comparing to a 9-5 and it had a good pay. It was a step towards a life with more time to improve. You really have to want to do this. Some things that helped me: At the start of my day I do a schedule for the day. 8-9: math. 9-10: physics. 11-12: math. So on. Making 1 ho…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 11:15 PM
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You're new here, so I recommend to read the sidebar. As a guy who has been cheated and learned to thrust his gut: You shouldn't be worried about this stuff. To me if something feels off, it probably is. If in the case it's me that's being paranoid, it's because I've lowered myself and entered the girls frame. Summing up: if you're worrying about your girl cheating, either she is, and/or you're lacking in your goals/game
/r/askTRP09/05/20 11:08 PM
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Yes. I talk to her about everything. She don't judge, this is not her job. She tries to understand me and see the difficulties I'm struggling with and tries to give me paths to be better at this or that. Fear exposure (approaching women) is a vey common topic in psychology (Cognitive behavioral therapy), and she really digs my way of doing things. I would say that seeing a therapist and not mentioning something that affects you at a greater level very narrow minded.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 03:52 PM
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Yeah, I can read all I want, but this shit will never sink in until I have first hand experience.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 12:57 PM
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You're definily right. It's for me to make something good out of this
/r/askTRP21/01/20 11:05 PM
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Thank you both mates. I'm happy that I made the right decision after all
/r/askTRP21/01/20 11:04 PM
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Idk, some people treat her like a goddes in that club. I guess I gonna have to find out for myself
/r/askTRP21/01/20 05:39 PM
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Probably, but she is literally a goddess to some people in there. I walked in with her and every hour some girl would come to her and say how much they admire her and of a lucky and awesome guy I was to be with her. I've never been in such situations.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 05:20 PM
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Thank you, you're actually fucking right. ​ I was imagining that in these days... Probably if I come to that place, and I talk to some girl I'll hear "Oh, you're that shitty boyfriend of Unicorn that has a small dick?", I was thinking of outcomes and I thought I could get banned responding something like 'Oh me? No, I'm the one that gaver a GOOD big dick'. This is the worst situation I can possibly imagine. Can you advice me on something to respond to the 'small dick' shit test without me gettin…
/r/askTRP21/01/20 05:15 PM
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Ehh some of them will also just lie to make you think she's a princess. It's a double edge sword, it's hard to really know a girl if she's that much into you
/r/askTRP20/01/20 08:22 PM
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Maybe like the other advice in here that was true, I should follow this. Goodbye folks
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:19 PM
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This is a very very difficult thing. I battled with this in my last ltr. How much should I set boundaries? Will I voice then? Or just make a decision? Well, my girl loved me a lot, and some boundaries I didn't mentioned to her, one of them was she still received complements from an ex and was OK with it. It was the only dude she had contact with. I only discovered after ending the relationship and I felt bad for her not "knowing" it without me saying. I guess what I'm trying to say is if your re…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 03:40 PM
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Yeah. So much useless discussion... Like "if ugly people didn't exist the dating market would be better" like wtf. I want real advice and thought behind choosing my relationship style of interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:35 AM
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/r/seduction04/01/20 01:51 PM
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I agree with you. But at the same time, is there any successful RedPiller that would NOT fit into the definition of the video?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 01:01 AM
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Yeah, but a 'Bitch management guide' is kind of controller to me. When to validate your LTR, when don't. Same with pickup, how much attention should you give, push/pull, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:34 AM
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I think I'll have a look again at some pickup videos, and well, get out more. ​ I'm not very good at flirting and keeping things hot, I think is because the validation I give in the start by giving them a kiss. After the kiss I don't know what to do you know? I'll try to not seek validation trhu kissing and will be more selective, why would I want to kiss a meaningless girl who could be blowing some guy off some time before? She needs to earn it
/r/askTRP03/01/20 05:22 PM
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Yeah I knew I was bad at gaming hahaha, I'll have to work a lot on this.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 05:18 PM
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Yeah, if the relationship is good to you, you have little doubts if you want to be with her for longer, than stay relaxed. Always a foot at the door, and never giving your life for someone
/r/askTRP03/01/20 03:39 PM
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This happened to me mate. My girl only liked my dick, I was her first to give anal, so on. It's hard to trust on this things. The thing for me, is that she was actually actively feeding me lies to like her. She didn't cheat or anything as far as I know, but the entire relationship I felt something weird on my gut.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 03:36 PM
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Yeah I guess this is what I'm doing. I'm going easy mode to get numbers but not fucking anyone
/r/askTRP03/01/20 03:26 PM
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Yes, that's why I'm posting this thread.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 02:26 PM
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The inky person that seemed to love you for real and hit the spot didn't wanted you anymore. She's now with another guy. The wound is fresh. Get over her, you'll do better next time, guaranteed
/r/askTRP02/01/20 03:47 PM
3

Thank you so much for this. I'm still kind of beating myself for ending things with my LTR. By I couldn't live in a lie. I had to force myself to be with her because I was supposed to. I didn't wanted to loose my chance of real love, of someone that loved me like no-one ever loved. But here I am, a whole world at my disposal. I can do anything, and your post summarizes my struggle to be who the fuck I want to be. All my destiny in my hands, I control my universe.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 03:30 PM
1

It was great! I had a really good female friend which invited to spend NYE with her. We bounded and at the club I hooked up with a beautiful blond girl. Of course I was not superb, but it was a great start! Thanks friend and Happy New Year!
/r/askTRP01/01/20 02:36 PM
1

Yeah, I usually try to push myself into things. I love raving, so if some dude of our group which I barely know invites me to some light trip, I'll go. I met people in business centered talks (like TEDx ones, but not that big), etc etc. I have friends to party, some to chill, and a few ones that share some interest and business and are potential partners. The thing for me is have multiple friends and don't spend too much time with the same people.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 02:34 PM
1

Yeah, actually my fears were right. I can't confirm her cheating, but she did went to party on a secret. Almost 100 proof anyway. It sucks
/r/askTRP01/01/20 12:23 AM
1

I'm doing this right now. The will to tell her how of a liar she was is big, but I won't do that
/r/askTRP01/01/20 12:22 AM
1

Maybe just about 50%
/r/askTRP31/12/19 10:53 PM
1

Hahaha is all true man! Check my post history
/r/askTRP31/12/19 10:53 PM
1

Hahaha I know what the trp think about this stuff, but maybe someone somewhere have the same doubt as me. I thought that she was different, almost just because of that, she WAS different in this sense, but AWALT. And no redpiller ever had a relationship like this (judging by this subreddit), so I'm glad I can share some knowledge hahaha
/r/askTRP31/12/19 10:52 PM
7

What you like about friendships? Talking shit? Talking about improvement? Doing Drugs? Creating business? I can talk shit in clubs and with homies, but I loove talking about business, money, girls, etc.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:02 PM
1

dudes will still claim snooping on phone is not a good idea. It obviously is. Yes. If you're insecure, you'll do this. I was insecure either by not having abundance or because I was 'feeling' something weird. Anyway the relationship would not work
/r/askTRP31/12/19 08:24 PM
3

Who can blame her for lying? She knows she’s in for a raft of shit for even having an “innocent” conversation. Now we know if the guy is hot she’s probably validation seeking, and she might even enjoy being hit on. A deeply insecure man like the OP cannot be trusted to read this situation, her lies could be covering for a tryst with Chad Thundercock or she could be lying because she knows OPs gonna freak when he learns she and Oliver Orbiter share cat memes while at work. There’s literally no wa…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 08:21 PM
3

Thabk you friend.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:43 PM
5

Yeah, but what about lying? I always had a feeling about her... Even tho I didn't discovered cheating, she lied about too much stuff. She made me believe she was this one person that cared most about values and etc, she's not special at all.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:33 PM
14

THANK YOU MY MAN
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:28 PM
4

Man, she lied that the only ever blowjob she liked was on my dick, she lied about me being the first who ducked her ass. I never asked this stuff, she always just states this shit to please me or something. If she lies this much she's addicted to it.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:28 PM
1

Which approach?
/r/askTRP31/12/19 02:41 PM
-1

In a way I wanted her to know what I would not accept in any case, which would be lies. And now I'm hammestering if I should do anything about it, of should consider this a simple thing not worth of anything...
/r/askTRP31/12/19 02:19 PM
1

Yeah if I mention this sit to her I'll say like the lad mentioned, just saying my friend is being too toxic lately
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:34 PM
2

You're right, thanks
/r/askTRP27/12/19 06:38 PM
3

It's true... I can count with some people, I make room for him because of history
/r/askTRP27/12/19 06:23 PM
1

Great advice
/r/askTRP27/12/19 04:02 PM
1

Me and my girl joke about each other regularly, but its light-hearted, like laughing at each other feet smell, stupid shit like that, never about serious stuff. I think she kinda of feel OK to to this in front of him because I've told her he's my best friend and so on. She also has an annoying feature to try to fit in. Example, she loves me with my X shoe, but for her to use, is too fucking big and not girly, although it's a unissex sneaker. My friend said "so LTR of my friend, what you think ab…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:08 PM
4

Ok I get it. I'll do this, my girl is very easy-going with people and get into people moods/manner in a fast manner, I think it's her way to feel "accepted". But it's disgusting that she tries to be accepted by my friend rather than by me... But at the same time, me and my girl joke about each other regularly but light-hearted, I think she kinda of feel OK to to this in front of him because I've told her he's my best friend and so on
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:03 PM
5

I'm not that paranoid. This would never happen, the guy can't lift his dick and doesn't even have any social media, he's isolated from everyone.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:00 PM
1

I do AA several times, but times I just feel annoyed and can't hold frame. He's ny best friend for a long time and of course he's comments have some power over me, but the guy is a fuck, even when I graduated he tried to mock me... I'm done with him
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:58 PM
2

This means shit. Everybody lies in a different way, some people that cheat get really offended if asked about it.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 07:35 PM
1

Legend
/r/askTRP23/12/19 03:47 PM
1

Yes this mindset is plague. I decided to not do this anymore as all my delusions of cheating proven to be false over and over again. I know my mind is weak and can easily become addicted in thoughts of betrayal, but my energy is a lot more valuable pursuing my goals.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 02:57 PM
1

Yeah, she was my whole universe at the time... Bring with her was pure heaven, I guess I wanted to feel this again, but don't know if the only way to feel this is being a piece of shit with nothing better in life
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:23 PM
2

In theory my "love" could becalled oneits then?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:14 PM
2

Be here now by Ram Dass is awesome, I believe it teaches the same principles.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 08:42 PM
6

I know this can make a guy suspicious or wanting to get more validated, but if she doesn't want to lost her hair... I think it's OK I guess? Would you date a girl that prefers to be bald just to be with one special dude?
/r/askTRP03/12/19 03:27 PM
2

Awesome.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 11:53 AM
2

Yeah about not seeing her... I'm planning to do so, going out with her at the parties just to "watch her over" is being more prioritize than my own rest and work. Thanks again mate
/r/askTRP26/11/19 07:49 PM
1

Thanks for the detailed thoughts you had. Yeah I was insecure, it was the only male friend I met, I've grown very comfortable with having zero competition as she is very reserved... I'll man the fuck up, thanks
/r/askTRP26/11/19 06:28 PM
1

I don't think they're very close, at least the way she told me about him.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:35 PM
1

WILL DO
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/19 05:18 PM
1

Yeah she's trans. Honestly I love shemales for a long time... Even without porn I feel very attracted. But I don't know if redpill works with her in the long run... She behaves more like a blue pill guy than a hypergamy woman. The same rules don't seem to apply
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:28 AM
0

I'm in this moment now, but I'm in a LTR right now with a possible unicorn... Several stuff makes me think we're not compatible, but she's very different, I'm going to be blunt, she's a trans... She's more like the blue pill me than a hypergamy woman. Don't know what to do
/r/askTRP15/11/19 06:09 AM
4

Tbh the same website tells that men should give their wife's a cheat pass
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:51 PM
1

Yeah, if it was a girl I would think twice. Gut with a dude I feel a git threatened... Thanks for the input
/r/askTRP03/11/19 12:06 AM
1

I'm not afraid of that, but I think it's kind of weird to make her go alone if I'm the only person she knows/is friend. But overall you're right, I'm being too paranoid
/r/askTRP03/11/19 12:02 AM
2

What if she says about some of my friends dick being big which her friend who sucked knows? God I feel destroyed and cucked...
/r/askTRP19/09/19 03:53 PM
1

I think this illustrates pretty well my life right now. I never thought it would be so easy to become beta in a relationship
/r/askTRP05/09/19 11:01 PM
1

Yeah, at first it was all natural. Sometimes I feel like I'm forcing some shit
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:12 PM
5

This. Since doing glutes I can finally dog a girl
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:51 PM
3

Lmao that's true
/r/askTRP02/09/19 02:45 PM
1

Read millionaires fast lane. It's opening my eyes. Working this much will have a toll on you regardless.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:03 PM
12

Wow
/r/askTRP17/08/19 03:46 AM
1

Yeah dude, I know, but I feel fucking betrayed AND robbed lmao. I want to atleast don't feel such a fucking loser
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:55 PM
1

Yeah, thabk you both. I get what both are saying, and I'll make a decision. I really want to get some things that I left at her place, so I'll probably explain shit. I'm going to say that I want to see her like it was normal, at the end when I get my things I'll tell her. Maybe I'll chicken out, than the solution will be via text. I don't know if this is "right", but I certainly want to do the shit that I want to do.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:51 PM
1

My fear is without explaining anything, she may come to my house, reach my friends and family...
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:25 AM
1

It might be true. But he's asking about the girl behavior, not why he isn't fucking or anything
/r/askTRP06/08/19 11:46 PM
1

It may be. I'm going to be blatant honest here. She's a trans girl. I always found some trans girls cute, and with this one I took a shot. We fucked on the second date, without a condom. She gave a few shit tests, but it was fast for her to love me. Her previous relationship was really bad. The guy was a drug addict and died from OD. I'm a mixture of nice guy and bad guy, at least this is the way I feel. One time when she was working, she cried desperately, because a friend of mine said it loud …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:36 PM
1

I'm trying. I'm seeing my friends again, focusing on my work and the gym, but for red pill, a girl working in a club is a huge red flag. I think it is for me to now. I was thinking about doing cold approaches and such just to make my brain see that I have abundance, but for me this is wrong..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:21 PM
1

I know mod, but last thread was made 150 days ago...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:15 PM
1

In which state do you live fellow brasileiro?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:55 PM
1

In which state do you live fellow brasileiro?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:55 PM
1

In which state do you live fellow brasileiro?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:53 PM
1

Yeah I don't live in the states, I'm Brazil social dynamics seem a lot different.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 10:53 AM
10

Wtf dude. This is things we see in fucking fyinny movies, I don't believe at all. Or it's because I've never seen a girl being such a slut..
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 03:35 PM
7

Maybe double check the condom?
/r/askTRP22/07/19 03:39 PM
1

Balls of steel
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:55 PM
14

Yes, I know I esxort that my friend would bang, and she had a boyfriend. The guy looked a cool guy, but maybe not the best player.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:22 PM
2

She likes me a lot and it's not doing her stuff too much. In part cause she want to be a good girlfriend, but I stimulate her to do her stuff. I'll work on my own time so she can be more free with hers, thanks mate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 01:09 PM
2

Nice question. I think you're right, I posted here because I was sad and wanting to vent. It was easier than to act. Thanks, I'm making some changes right now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 01:07 PM
1

Thanks, nice words that I agree with. Yesterdary I saw a very big friend of mine and it was awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 01:07 PM
1

You both right, I'm sobbing for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:59 PM
1

Thank you all for your comments people. Of course I knew the answer.... Sometimes I need a push, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:59 PM
2

What? Is rgis simple? I believe some people want to explore more stuff and don't want to spend the rest of his life fucking just one person, and the fact of letting the partner know is the opposite of cheating and being a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:52 PM
1

This is kind of sad. Right now I'm in this situation as well.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 03:21 PM
-2

Wow this would be cool
/r/askTRP02/07/19 12:56 PM
2

Thanks a lot mate. Unfortunately I failed.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:08 PM
1

I'll do it. Doing via text is too weak?
/r/askTRP01/06/19 03:15 PM
1

They will "communicate". She will actively push you away from work, working out, pursuing your passions to spend time with you. If my LTR is doing this stuff, she's trying to bring me into their frame. But at the same time, I'm not showing much affection in the last few weeks. Maybe she's doing this stuff to try to get me at the level we were before, or she does this because she feels she 'owns' me already?
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:44 AM
2

From my understanding this only proves that cold showw after a workout is bad. What about rest days?
/r/askTRP29/05/19 05:47 PM
1

My feelings is that she wouldn't do. She lays her cellphone in any place, I take him to the bathroom as flashlight sometimes (but I don't care to read messages), her profile picture has me in it... But you know, a std is a big thing in all of my gut feelings.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 11:11 PM
2

Advise me. My ltr uses a picture of both of us in her whatsapp, and has 3 pics of us together in insta. Is it enough?
/r/askTRP24/05/19 01:28 PM
3

Also in Brazil, if you stay 2 years with a person, is already considered like marriage. I don't know the details, but I bet is bad stuff.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 01:24 PM
1

I would say that the problem is that maybe I can't know if she cheated me (I may have gotten from the soap?), but I guess you'd tell me to get over her and that's it. Yeah, eventually I should next my unicorn :/
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:53 PM
-2

Holy fuck dude, maybe she was too afraid to loose you? In the bitch management guide this would also be a issue.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:50 PM
3

Tough pill to swallow. I've cried with my ltr, I'll test this for myself then
/r/askTRP22/05/19 04:32 PM
1

I assume the correct move was to tell righ away that she was disrespectful, and that you didn't liked that. Without being butthurt , but making it obvious that she lost some value for me.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 05:29 PM
1

I'm attracted. I can have normal Sex like a champ, my problem is anal, in which I apply lube. But thinking about it, Ive always had a problem with the girl being on top. Thanks for the link, I'll thought if I use the cialis.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 03:43 PM
1

If I don't tell she might suspect something is different if my erextion is the hardest she's ever seen
/r/askTRP15/05/19 02:21 PM
2

I have cialis because I wanted to have sex on mdma (which generally causes limp dick), not because of Ed issues. Downtime you mean the time I take to "prepare" the fuck (put lube, put a finger, etc)?
/r/askTRP15/05/19 02:18 PM
2

You did right. Awesome for you man
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 11:03 PM
1

My dude whats up? Things ended fine?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 09:21 PM
3

In a LTR how do you balance the 11? As you get to know more a person and get serious, some things are half expected by the girl. Should I always think about myself first?
/r/seduction03/05/19 08:58 PM
1

Can I ask where do you live?
/r/seduction03/05/19 06:30 PM
2

!remindme 2 days
/r/seduction09/04/19 02:19 PM
3

Basically: if she's being a bitch with you, don't accept it. Have limits. When she's happy and is enjoying life with you, you do the same. Treat her like you'd treat a friend, don't let her step boundaries just because she's a girl.
/r/seduction27/03/19 06:49 PM
1

Please elaborate
/r/seduction23/02/19 11:45 AM
1

Which brand it was?
/r/seduction26/12/18 07:22 PM
1

you asking that is sort of seeking validation for your action You're definitely right man. To be completely honest more bad shit happened and I'm definitely searching for support and validation. I was not consciously thinking like this when posting, but it's the deep truth. Thanks a lot for the input! Now I'm seeing a pattern in my actions this past few months.
/r/seduction17/12/18 12:28 AM
1

Hahaha I know man! I should have walked out, but I was referring about the things prior to the kick, me complimenting a random girl, doing the high five, etc...
/r/seduction16/12/18 11:46 PM
2

Yeah you're right, it's hard to give advice if I was drunk. But besides this fact, are the things I did before the incident generally ok? I don't know if I should act this way again.
/r/seduction16/12/18 11:27 PM
1

I'm gonna remember this!
/r/seduction14/12/18 07:59 PM
1

Oh I get it. It's like defying my beta nature or trying to please the other person.
/r/seduction13/12/18 03:37 PM
1

Some of the things that completly destroy the tension : c. When you speak with someone, you smile (and you try to stop doing it, you realize you cant) Can you elaborate more with this? Is it bad to be always smiling when talking to someone?
/r/seduction13/12/18 12:32 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/seduction01/10/18 11:20 PM
1

Thanks man. So the best move with this girl is to keep things normal, and not talk about the weirdness of yesterday?
/r/seduction30/09/18 06:04 PM
1

Yeah, I get it. What I am doing now is just the small talk, and the second person I approach at the day I do without any thinking. It's really natural, but only the second person haha. Guess I will do more and test what you've said, cheers.
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:28 PM
1

That's really a lot better. But would I say this to a complete stranger in a bus stop? Wouldn't that be weird?
/r/seduction15/08/18 12:41 PM
28

She was about to cry with that stock Pic man haha
/r/seduction14/08/18 12:32 PM
5

Ask and make a new thread mate!
/r/seduction14/08/18 12:22 PM
1

I think your post needs more context, but what I can say is that developing intimacy with a new group of friends its not that easy. It takes some time to strength the bound. So more stuff with them, invite them for cool stuff, and as aways, be the fun of the party.
/r/seduction13/08/18 07:11 PM
1

Alright, I'm not so good at game, but I'm good in having good friends. Tell more about the interaction with your friends. Why are you friends? How intimate you are with each other? What hobbies do you have in common? These circle of friends, has people that known each other for years and you just got inside the group? In general I would tell you to be more intimate with one or two circle of friends. It's very hard to create intimacy, believes me, it takes time and lots of experiences.
/r/seduction13/08/18 06:41 PM
1

Alright, I'm not so good at game, but I'm good in having good friends. Tell more about the interaction with your friends. Why are you friends? How intimate you are with each other? What hobbies do you have in common? These circle of friends, has people that known each other for years and you just got inside the group? In general I would tell you to be more intimate with one or two circle of friends. It's very hard to create intimacy, believes me, it takes time and lots of experiences.
/r/seduction13/08/18 06:38 PM
3

Ok, now you're just shitposting
/r/seduction10/08/18 02:54 PM
3

Stop with this shit dude. It's easier to give up and feel sorry for yourself, I know, but people want to change and this is the place for it.
/r/seduction10/08/18 02:40 PM
1

This. Start slow, let you learn little by little how much it's fine to talk to people. What I do is talk with anyone at bus stops and at the bus, everyday. It really helps man.
/r/seduction10/08/18 02:05 PM
5

I thought you were joking when I started reading, this seems so weird, but I believe it doukr really work haha
/r/seduction10/08/18 11:47 AM
2

No problem mate, keep it going!
/r/seduction09/08/18 07:09 PM
4

Dude. Just chill. Take a deep breath and see all of this for what it is. I recommend you some counseling, as it's fucking helpful. Maybe you have lots of non dealt drama. If you think you're OK, I think you're not, because your life translates your mind health. Read models by Mark Manson, and read it carefully without rushing it. Think about the topics and write it down what you think. This book will help you be yourself without all this pressure. Be in mind I was not always good with girls, and…
/r/seduction09/08/18 05:54 PM
1

Hello friend, English it's not my primary language, care to elaborate on this: Hectic day game vs chill day game
/r/seduction09/08/18 02:14 PM
1

Thanks I'll keep this in mind.
/r/seduction08/08/18 08:48 PM
1

I'm in the same spot as you dude. My girl friends told me to be open about it and to invite her into a date. I'm kind of struggling with this because all can go to shit, you know. I think the best thing is to be really bit affected by a no, and having more suitable partners in your life, so she can see you're not desperate for her.
/r/seduction08/08/18 07:51 PM
1

What if she doesn't see the guy as a potential hook up?
/r/seduction08/08/18 07:49 PM
2

I get where you're coming from, and I think I'm inclined to agree about not "telling how I feel" . But on the other side, Mark Mason's book talk about being honest with your intentions and everything, and I think telling her exactly what is going on in my mind could help showing her that I'm not that desperate, and I value our friendship. Care to elaborate more on why not?
/r/seduction08/08/18 02:23 PM
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No. Woman want fuck boys because they're fun and doesn't take all this shit seriously. Some people had better parents or are simply different, this doesn't mean you can't change. When a girl hit a wall and wants a nice boy, it's because they're desperate or too old. It's bad for the nice guy still, because she'll see him as what he is, a weak person. Read the book No More Mr. Nice Guy. It will give you a whole new perspective on this. PM me and I can send you the book friend.
/r/seduction07/08/18 02:10 PM
2

I don't know if it's what you're looking for and I've never done it. But read about karezza, I've read a book about it and it seems fucking awesome.
/r/seduction30/07/18 02:08 AM
1

Go for it man! Life is full of wonder you'll see!
/r/seduction09/07/18 05:57 PM
1

I will, thanks
/r/seduction09/07/18 05:13 PM
1

About the freezing up, is normal. It's very difficult to someone shy to start doing this things. What you can do: * Read posts in this subreddit about approach anxiety; * Put yourself in more chaotic sets, like clubs or parties alone. Being alone will help you not feel judged by friends, and will allow you to be bored and having a more natural approach to why talk to random people; * follow de 3 seconds rule. If you see a girl that you find cute, you have 3 seconds to approach. Move your feets t…
/r/seduction09/07/18 05:12 PM
1

Can you elaborate a little but more mate? What I notice is that sometimes when I start to tell my story of something people want to interrupt me and tell their story first. I feel that this is really obnoxious of people, but probably is the way I tell my story, but I can't really grasp why this happens.
/r/seduction09/07/18 02:58 PM
1

I didn't quite understand. I imagine that your enters were suppressed when you submitted your post. To answer the title question, meditation helps a lot with calming your inner voice. Other things that help is doing more phisicial activities, and in my experience getting better with girls. This makes you more comfortable being yourself around other people.
/r/seduction09/07/18 02:51 PM
2

In a week? Go watch rsd max manifesto on YouTube, go guy nice clothes and get a nice haircut and start approaching.
/r/seduction29/06/18 09:42 PM
1

Quick question: my smartphone take potato pictures. Still count? I always look awkward.
/r/seduction28/06/18 05:11 PM
1

It's subjective of course. Although I'm a absolute beginner and haven't doing much, I think It will work if you commit to it and do his 'quests'. Anyway you can watch his YouTube videos to see if you 'click' with his methods.
/r/seduction28/06/18 11:47 AM
3

This. Being alone makes you face your fears more easily.
/r/seduction26/06/18 12:36 PM
1

For you guys that approach, are these sets like in the real life? It seems so fake
/r/seduction14/06/18 04:06 PM
2

Question: what is bounce? I thought it meant to go away fast, but in this case it's something cool?
/r/seduction13/06/18 01:01 PM
12

Approaching is already a win, you learned something, next time you'll be a little better m8!
/r/seduction07/06/18 02:29 PM
2

Holy shit im nervous just thinking about doing that
/r/seduction06/06/18 06:39 PM
3

Thanks for the inspiration mate!
/r/seduction30/05/18 12:18 PM
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