How to hard next?

900_year_old_vampire · 2019-08-16T10:17:31+00:00

the answer to your question: forget the money, delete her from your phone, never talk to her again, start building a new collection of women immediately

an aside: relax. youre only upset because youve lost sight of how wildly replaceable she is. this will go away when you have new ones worshiping you. move on learn and dont make the same mistakes next time ie all eggs in one basket, lacking conviction, listening to words instead of actions, seeing your women being angry/frustrated as a bad thing, caring about what your women do when they arent with you, caring about 50 dollars, allowing her to get you so upset...

you are perpetually reacting. start acting instead. just do stuff. nobody is forcing you to ever see or interact with this person ever again. i think your boundary she crossed is retarded in the first place but thats your business. if youre going to have them you must enforce them

BadHabit83 · 2019-08-16T11:02:52+00:00

How many "almosts" before it's "almost" too late? "I almost stripped in front of strangers while doing my job". "I almost sucked on his dick when it was being slapped in my face". "I almost fucked that guy backstage when I was on my break". "I almost got pregnant when I got fucked those guys". "Almost almost". It's a shit test to see what you'll put up with.

I wouldn't be surprised if she hasn't done one or more of those "almosts" already. Since it looks like you're all set on dumping her anyway, then just do it. You can let her know that she broke her promise and it's over, if you want. I get why some of these guys go on about just "ghosting" with no explanation etc. But personally I think there's a "time" and "place" for things like that, else it's just juvenile narcissistic shit.

Look at the "900 year old vampire" he admitted that he prefers to just ignore/ghost them completely, making them constantly wonder where it all went wrong, just like a narcissist, enjoying and feeding off of the mental chaos he helped create. Probably gets turned on by it, thinking he's some "Alpha" type by mentally torturing those around him while he just goes about finding new people to torment.

There's a "time" and "place" for things like that. Just doing it for the sake of doing it though... He's no better than the women this site is speaking out against. A little narcissistic mentally ill drama queen with no empathy.

I guess what I'm saying at the end of the day. Do the right thing for yourself. If you feel like you can't face her, then just go on your own and ignore her. Delete her from social media etc and go on with your life. If you feel like you have to at least give her an explanation of why you're breaking up your relationship, then do that. You decide what's best for yourself here.

[deleted] · 2019-08-16T15:07:14+00:00

Dead the debt, write it off as a lesson and ghost this chick. Ghosting is a pretty sweet way of getting rid of people you don't like.

le_king_falcon · 2019-08-16T15:17:37+00:00

$50 to not see her again is a bargain mate. Just ghost her and you'll be a happier lad for it.

Balkanskii · 2019-08-16T15:21:34+00:00

olol $50

Title	How to hard next?
Author	ForeverInYou
Upvotes	1
Comments	13
Date	August 16, 2019 10:06 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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