I've tried many different groups of people. Yet I feel as if I don't fit in with any of them.

It's this an effect of being a man with a mission? Or do I need to reassess my social skills?

I had a landscaping business in highschool and was told very often that I "speak very well unlike today's youth" by my clients 30-70 years old. Yet when chilling with the homies I don't seem to connect with them or develop meaningful relationships.

When it comes to women I have no problem getting lays. Girls go wild for my cock, but I find my lack of a social group slows me down tremendously. Girls tend to leave when they see how alone I am. Not looking for sympathy that's just my experience. As I am insecure around women due to the fact I have very few "friends"

Any advice be it harsh or not will be greatly appreciated.